The weekend was sooo amazing. And now I'm back home, 9 hours away from him and I can't stop crying... This is so hard! My heart hurts so bad. It gets harder each time I swear. How do you guys handle this? How do you cope with the hurt?
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It is very difficult the few days/weeks after a visit. I get quite down and emotional having to get back into the swing of things without his presence. Especially after our last visit; was there about 3 weeks and was almost getting accustomed to a different country. And then BOOM! Back home and to the mundane, apart from him.
Best thing in my opinion is to just talk to each other, express what and how you're feeling. Something else that me and my SO do is plan the next trip and set up a countdown. And STICK to it. Gives us something to look forward to and lifts us back up.
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You give your self time to be sad and cry, then put on your big girl pants. As a couple, you enhance each other, you dont stop living and doing stuff apart. Pick up a hobby, go to school, find something interesting for YOU to do..Comment
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Thank you! Last night was tough I was up til 2am with bad anxiety, my chest was hurting, constant crying. I did tell him and we talked and it eased the pain a little. I didn't want to get up and carry on today but I did, back to work and back to routine. I'm feeling a little better.Originally posted by Freebird View Post
still miss him like crazy and I will til I am in his arms again
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