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    Quote Originally Posted by inday101 View Post
    Same dilemma, sad but I'm still hoping for the best. I need to calm down first because I'm being too emotional.
    If your relationship began on 12/16/15 and both of you are still on dating sites, there are some issues going on like communication and honesty. Both of those need to be addressed. I encourage you to look at how honest you have been in the relationship for over a year IF the two of you have discussed and agreed on an exclusive relationship and you are still hiding that you are on dating sites.

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    I would absolutely confront her about this. I would be pretty upset at finding my partner on a dating site, and if I were dating this person for a year or more, would seriously question whether I would continue the relationship. But you also need to admit you were on it too. Be honest. If you cannot be upfront and honest about everything, the relationship will suffer.

    I, personally, would ask her if she is serious and if she would like the relationship to continue.

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    It's difficult to tell everything that happened with us. I deleted my profile in December 2015 when i became really into him. We exchanged ily in June 2016. I assumed he deleted his profile. I didn't ask anything. I trusted him. I just made a profile to see if he did chats with other women. He took the bait. Yeah it's difficult and not only is the relationship suffering but also the 2 of us.
    Sorry if I can't tell everything here. i can PM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by inday101 View Post
    It's difficult to tell everything that happened with us. I deleted my profile in December 2015 when i became really into him. We exchanged ily in June 2016. I assumed he deleted his profile. I didn't ask anything. I trusted him. I just made a profile to see if he did chats with other women. He took the bait. Yeah it's difficult and not only is the relationship suffering but also the 2 of us.
    Sorry if I can't tell everything here. i can PM.
    I understand you're OP's SO?
    If so, I think you really should talk together. Open, honest, and mostly: calm! Good luck
    Distance means nothing when someone means everything.



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