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    New here and about to embark on a overseas LDR. Any words of comfort, tips?

    Hi there,

    I have been with my boyfriend for 2 1/2 years. We have been in a LDR before (he lived around 2 hrs from me last year, only saw each other on weekends). This year we have lived pretty much together.

    He's been offered a 6 month project offer in the US to work. Of course the offer is too much of a good opportunity to pass up. I encouraged him to go.

    He officially left today.

    how do I cope. I am worried that they will ask him to stay longer and he'll want to/won't want to say no as he is so driven.

    How do I support him and nurture his passions when I am so gutted he's so far away. how do I cope?

    Right now I just ache. I can't be in the house. It's such a horrid feeling and I miss him dearly.

    I am off to see him in September, which isn't long. Its just the feeling of knowing that everything has changed. Even when he returns to the UK, it won't be to the same city as me. AHH! It's more that things will NEVER be the same.

    I love him dearly and not being together is not an option.

    Help!!!!!!
    G xxxx
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