I named my post in such way because I have been subconciously noticing things in people that I have not payed attention to before.So,what do I value in people?
Creativity comes first. Yesterday (and day before and before) we've been chatting so much on Skype with my SO.We discussed art and music,we always find some underground/not so famous bands and we share with each other. We show our sketches and criticize them on Skype and just recently I thought:Goddamn I am blessed to have met a person like him.Then I started looking more closely at other people around,searching for something unique that any person should posess (in my opinion).Sure,everyone have some good traits but I am talking about creativity,the way of expressing yourself.It really became important for me these days,maybe because I dont see many creative people around.By the way listen to this song if you like reggae/rasta,its a very chilled one.
As well,what counts for me is an open mind.We were having a discussion with my colleague and she told me about a convo she was having with the other girl.It surprised my colleague the girl didnt even want to travel and explore the world.She was perfectly comfortable in her own small world not even wondering what lies behind its borders.I do not think its something good or be proud of.Yes,yes,as we say so many people so many tastes.But i really dislike certain tastes and i dont even care if its personal choice or not.Basically,rape and murder are personal choices as well.So all I can say is-lack of open mind for me is something I would not tolerate in a person.I may be called snobbish or selfish,well,i dont mind.Its just a shame many people spend their lifes without even noticing its beauty