All the people who treat me poorly generally treat others poorly so I shouldn't take it too personal. That's just the way they are: disrespectful. The only people they are nice to are people who also act like them. I'm not going to pretend to be an insensitive jerk to gain their friendships and that's not who I'd want to be my friends anyway. My friends who truly do know me have always told me I'm too nice that's why people pick on me. I think they're right. I think people think I won't do anything to them so for lack of a better term the "haters" just push buttons until I pop, getting a reaction out of me because that's how they are. My character though, is not to be a rude, guiltless person, that's not me. So I'm going to have to find other ways to deal with people who don't know any better how to treat others.

I mean they should know, but they don't act like they have the basic social skills. After more people constantly blame me, the same bored haters who have nothing better to say, saying people hate me because there is something wrong with me, I've come to realize something: The people who dislike me are people I couldn't care less to talk to, after they said something more about themselves, I noticed they don't have certain morals and are probably jealous that I have good morals and it would be out of character for me to do something bad, people who don't know me, people who take the time to constantly misinterpret me. I'm someone who owns up to my own faults, unlike some people. Because if it was really me who was the problem, then everyone should hate me right? Yet, I have friends, for the friends that I do have they have morals and treat people like they should be treated and people who actually took the time to get to know my situation, they don't come off as judgmental.

I've always respected society, people's relationships, didn't do things without a guilty conscience, been an outstanding friend to my friends. It's up to them to treat me the same in return but if they don't I'll drop them.

I've also noticed that people who hate me have something they are jealous of me about.

With my ex best friend she hated how I didn't have any weight issues and was natural beauty, didn't have to work for it. No wonder she turned out to be a super bia about it, though.

The woman at work no one likes her and yet haters still want to claim it's "me."

When are you going to stop? I'm not leaving this forum and I actually have decent people to talk to here, shockingly through your hater glasses, I do have friends here. You see, I know it's not in your nature to be the bigger person, so I'm going to be the bigger person and I have been. I have been ignoring those who have nothing better to do than to hate. You're too self absorbed to realize I stopped responding to your snide hypocritical remarks a long time ago. Only a few weeks ago did I decide to respond again, but some people just aren't worth the patience to deal with.

I really don't care if you think I'm the issue.

After more thinking, I'm really not the issue. I cannot change how people perceive me or the world it's best just to ignore people who don't have anything better to do than to try to bring others down! The problem is, they think they're bringing me down but they're not. It shows judgment on their own characters that they think they can judge people they don't know when they don't have the proper information.