Why can't my SO be in the states? Why? People I have met on here say that for example if they are in California and their SO is in Montana-It's lucky. Flights are cheap state to state. Going across the pond isn't as cheap. I really do envy people who have LDR's in the states. Because for me that would be easier if my SO lived lets say in Arizona I could fly down every other weekend. But since he lives in england I have to plan in advance so it won't interfere with school..It really sucks. I do consider people with states LDR's lucky and they should be grateful. Even if your SO is a long state away its luck. I mean I love my SO very much and hes very good to me I just wish he lived over here that way it would be easier to see him.