Non Perfect

blissfulgirl2 started a blog post Non Perfect
June 7, 2010, 06:23 PM
Non Perfect

On my way home I saw signs on for sale signs from a guy asking a girl to prom and the signs lead all the way out to one of my neighbor's houses and the truth is it got me thinking. Maybe there are only some people out there that have ideal perfect lives and the rest of us were meant to have crappy normal lives. For example no one ever asked me to school dances in high school I always asked them and even for Prom, which now isn't a big deal to some but it was back then I asked a guy I liked. I baked him brownies the whole deal and he rejected me a week before Prom and I went alone with friends who had dates. And it was a depressing night. Seriously. I cried. When I saw the signs coming home I wish a guy had asked me to Prom in a cute way like that or something smaller. I wouldn't have cared I still get depressed thinking about how I went alone to Prom. Thats the one dance I wanted a date and I didn't get one. ...I mean some girls are lucky and they get dates and perfect dresses. They make into great colleges and are popular maybe even join the greek system, my point I'm making is I'm at a community college. I'm getting by fine but I'm in an LDR I dont regret it bc I love my SO. I just wish my life could have been more perfect and simpler like I said in my last blog. I know its my fault I couldn't get into a decent college but i don't know. I'm just ranting.
Im going to start on my stupid h.w assignment. bye!
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  blissfulgirl2 commented
  
  June 7, 2010, 10:17 PM
  
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  thanks lady march i was just having a bad day i guess
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  June 8, 2010, 12:27 AM
  
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  First of all, no one is perfect! I know people say that a lot, but in reality, I believe that every person has at least one struggle that they go through that defines who they are as a person. While you might not see it at first glance, if you talk to the person and get to know them, you will find out that they are not as different as you think. I used to be really judgmental of people, but once I realized this, it sort of changed my perspective on the world.
  
  As for Prom, I really do not think it is as big of a deal as it is cracked up to be. I hated high school, and now that I am in college, I realize that none of it really matters anymore. Who cares that I wasn't popular in high school? Popularity is overrated. As long as you have a group of friends that you love and cherish, that is all that should matter As for Greeks, if you want to be one, you should try, but I do not think you need to go Greek to be happy. Again, everyone has their problems, and being in a sorority will not change the fact that underneath the exterior they are the same as everyone else
  
  Also, like Lady March said, nothing is wrong with community college either. If anything, you will not graduate with tons of unneeded debt that you cannot pay off If you really want to go to a four year school, then just keep that goal in mind and you could possibly transfer in two years if you make good enough grades. My SO went to a community college and then transferred to college after a few years, and he got a degree
  
  Also, I think Long Distance Relationships can be beautiful. I know they are hard, but finding love is something that should be cherished. Whenever you find yourself getting down, just remember why you chose this in the first place
  
  I know everything can seem horrible when you are having a bad day, but keeping a positive attitude can make the world seem much brighter! I often think negative as well, but I try to nip it in the butt when I notice it
  
  Hope you feel better!
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  blissfulgirl2 commented
  
  June 8, 2010, 09:29 PM
  
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  thanks blue stars that made me feel soo much better and ur right who cares that i wasnt popular in high school i didnt care what people thought of me anyway but thanks
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