Ok So my situation currently is I'm a college student, and currently looking for a job while my SO has a job and has been out of school for awhile..Anyway. He has been saving up to see me and he has saved up a good amount of money. Well he just told me that he bought a dvd player for his car and used that savings that he was saving to come over here on the fucking dvd player. And to be honest...I'm pissed. He tried to make up for it saying he's going to sell his back lights on ebay to get back the money he originally had. But no one is going to buy his lights for awhile I mean seriously. Who randomly decides to put a dvd player in their car? He had his goal to save up to come over here yet he blows it off by buying a dvd player. I'm just hurt and pissed because now he probably won't make it over in July. And I thought he was taking this seriously. Emma was right he needs to mature up because he doesn't act like he's 21 sometimes. UGHH. I feel like I'm not important to him a sense and IDK what to do.