Hi Im 20 almost 21 which I will be in October. I still live with my parents, whom are trying to get me to move out. My sister started it all now my dads starting to get in on it-which is bad because usually hes last to say something, my mom on the other hand pushes things right into the ground. Thank gosh she's tired tonight otherwise she would have joined the band wagon too. My dad said "you have been at the community college for 2 yrs and still aren't close to any job. You need to find something I you are interested in and pursue it." --side note--he knows what I am in interested in and when he picks a fight he uses that line. I said "there are multiple things I am pursuing." (photography-art degree and, my education degree for teaching.) I did say that part to him but he knows. He just said "oh yeah such as what?" And that hurts because he knows what I am passionate about and he ignores it. So I started to walk away and he goes "think about this tonight, if on Oct. 11th you were outa here as in moved out paying all the bills on your own. keeping a car,house, maybe having B come live with you paying for two people literally thousands of dollars. Do you think you can do that? Go think about it long and hard." So not only is he crushing me mentally he is threatening to throw me out? Is that what he's saying or is he saying be grateful for what you have or else? I am grateful, and I haven't said anything disrespectful at all. I mean yes today I ran my car into the side of his shop on accident because I meant to hit the brake and hit the accell and now hes saying my insurance will go up and it is high because of my age group. Its more than their insurance-so Im worried about them taking my car away Idk what to do...Any advice?