I know sounds odd but the idea just came to me..If you have been reading my other blogs and keeping up with me I just realized that my mother is just like Ali's mother in the movie. And Noah's family aka just his dad is like B and his dad. My mom if you remember in my other blogs keeps telling me to compare my life with B's and money wise as well to his. Ali's mother did that in the film *side note* I was watching the film tonight.It just makes me sad that that old southern way creeped into my mother. At a wedding I went to recently the dad of the bride said while toasting, "We as parents want our kids to have it better than we did." Maybe that is true but not all parents need to try and get in the way of love. Yes, B not have much but he gets by. I know when we both have jobs we will be fine. Its 2011 not 1960. It makes me sad that when B and I get engaged my mom might not approve-my dad will say yes to him because he likes him. But I mean I don't know for sure that she won't approve of him but it makes me worried. I love B so much and I picture us getting married all the time, I just wish life was giving us a road here instead we are trying to make our own and my parents are snagging me (like blackberry bushes) and I'm trying to push past and see whats ahead. You get where Im going? Noah and Ali end up together and I know B and I will too. But I wish my mom would stop being so negative. So In short B is my Noah and Im his Ali-minus the weird mood changes and how they fight. But pretty much her mom is my mom (character wise).