and my dad was telling my mom he was sick of her talking down to him and making him feel low, also for being defense when he said something and he was tired of it. My mom was saying stuff to defend herself but it wasn't working-when my mom and I went kayaking later I talked to her about it and she said "sometimes people grow apart, marriage isn't easy and sometimes people argue." Then I asked her about Florida--because they got a winter house there which stresses me out because my mom is going down for sure this year but my dad isn't and when I asked her if she was coming back she said, "maybe, I want to go to central america." This has always been on my stressor list that my parents will move away and leave me here. And it scares me to death. I believe my parents are fine together-was I wrong? Could they be growing apart? I hope not it makes me sad. I told my mom how stressed out it makes me and she said "I will always be your mom here or somewhere else." --I guess I have abandoment issues but I dont want to her move down there without my dad. I dont want them to grow apart... As you can probably get Im scared of A- my mom leaving my dad to go to Florida for good. or B-they will grow apart or stay together and move down together which I hope is the case BUT I want them to stay up here and not move...It stresses me out more than school and that should say a lot....Anyone have any answers or advice for me?? Please. Im scared.
be strong girl!