It's 2 weeks into my visit and me and the SO had our first serious talk since I arrived. He was a little sad and depressed at the time, we were talking about my current visit and some of the things we won't be able to do because of the weather or money, and then he went on to say how it's been stressful planning for me to visit and planning the next visit and planning how to propose...
He carried on talking and my mind was stuck on that last bit...Propose!
In his 29 years of life he says he finally found someone that he he can commit to, my heart was doing little flip flops. He didn't propose to me right there, which is a relief I have to say. I love him dearly but he was half asleep at the time of this discussion and I would have said no just to make sure he knew what he was saying when he was 100% awake.
That makes me even more excited for my next visit, saying that he said he wants me to stay for 2/3 months next time and that would mean I would have to quit my job. I want to quit anyway but with this visit I have something to go back to when I get home, what if next time I go home and I can't find a job, it'll be a long time before we can do visits again.
Guess I'll just have to see how it goes.
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