Just wanna share my story. =)
i was in a phase in my life when i loved updating my facebook profile, posting updates about my life, ramdom thoughts. I was in a relationship then. While checking my notifications, i saw a familiar name. He was my classmate from high school. He migrated to the US after graduation. It was nice reconnecting, we had the usual hi and hellos. I asked about his SO, then he opened up that the girl cheated on him so they broke up. I felt bad for him coz he was really a nice guy. And now he was starting over again since he moved to another state after their break up. We talked everyday after that, exchanging jokes and stories. That went on for a couple of months. Then i found out my then bf was cheating on me. I was devastated but he help me through it with encouraging words. He was giving advise based on what he went through a few months back. He made me smile again. I looked forward to his messages every morning. He made me happy again. After a month, he asked if i wanted to be exclusive and try the long distance thing. Of course, i said yes. I know it was just chatting online but i never felt closer to anyone the way i did with him. We talked about everything and for the first time, i felt i found my equal. Ive never regretted the day i said yes. Coz after a year of LDR, he came home. We got married and lived together for half a year. But he had to leave again temporarily. Since he left, ive been having a hard time coping. I was so happy when we were together ans adjusting to being alone again is emotionally taxing. I find myself crying almost everyday. But i am trying to be strong for him. I know he's doing his best to come home to me again. And this site has helped me see that there will be a happy ending to our story. It helped me be more positive and know im not alone in my struggles.
i was in a phase in my life when i loved updating my facebook profile, posting updates about my life, ramdom thoughts. I was in a relationship then. While checking my notifications, i saw a familiar name. He was my classmate from high school. He migrated to the US after graduation. It was nice reconnecting, we had the usual hi and hellos. I asked about his SO, then he opened up that the girl cheated on him so they broke up. I felt bad for him coz he was really a nice guy. And now he was starting over again since he moved to another state after their break up. We talked everyday after that, exchanging jokes and stories. That went on for a couple of months. Then i found out my then bf was cheating on me. I was devastated but he help me through it with encouraging words. He was giving advise based on what he went through a few months back. He made me smile again. I looked forward to his messages every morning. He made me happy again. After a month, he asked if i wanted to be exclusive and try the long distance thing. Of course, i said yes. I know it was just chatting online but i never felt closer to anyone the way i did with him. We talked about everything and for the first time, i felt i found my equal. Ive never regretted the day i said yes. Coz after a year of LDR, he came home. We got married and lived together for half a year. But he had to leave again temporarily. Since he left, ive been having a hard time coping. I was so happy when we were together ans adjusting to being alone again is emotionally taxing. I find myself crying almost everyday. But i am trying to be strong for him. I know he's doing his best to come home to me again. And this site has helped me see that there will be a happy ending to our story. It helped me be more positive and know im not alone in my struggles.
It's hard and it may seem like he's gone forever but just keep reminding yourself that minutes pass into hours, hours pass into days and days pass into weeks and even months. Time will always keep a steady pace, you'll just have to wait and trust it to pass and make the best of things while it does. Keeping busy will make it seem to pass faster though. 
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