Hi,
My name is Caroline, and this is the story of how I met the love of my life, Luis.
[he already posted it, but I think my version will tell more]
Alright,
it all started around...a little over three years ago.
We both joined this MMORPG called FlyFF. I was currently dating somebody from there, his name was David. He was my first ever long distance relationship, and my biggest mistake. I had convinced myself that I was madly in love with him, when we all knew it was going to end. Anyways, David introduced me to Luis maybe a year after I met him. I had seen him around on the game, but I had never talked to him. When I did for that first time, I felt the connection. We ALWAYS talked, and would talk in caps and use ! just to show how excited we were how to talk to eachother, haha. This friendship went downhill quite fast because David would be racist to Luis, since Luis is Mexican, and David and I are both from America. David pretty much forbid me from talking to Luis because they had gotten in a fight and Luis called him fat and pretty much pissed him off for the last time. Luis and I talked a little but our friendship had drastically decreased. Then over a year ago, I ended things with David. Luis was one of the first people I told, and he had my back all through it. He kept me going when I was upset and was going to run back into David's arms. I dumped David for a ton of reasons. But this isn't about him. So I'm not going to explain it. Anyways, David started telling Luis all these nasty things about me and the first thing Luis did was ask me if they were true..and we joked about it. He didn't believe David at all, and we just sat there making fun of the kid who was now trying to ruin my life.
After David, I dated a few other LDR guys. Me and Luis' bond still hadn't grown back up much quite yet. So we stopped talking for a few months. In these months I dated those other LDR guys, and I finally gave up on them. I thought "this isn't for me" and I started going after guys in real life. Well, Luis ended up talking to me again around this time. I had, I guess, fallen for a guy, who just used me to get another girl. Luis told me the straight up truth that he sucked and won't change and won't ever love me. He didn't sugar coat it, or try to give me hopes. He just told me the straight out truth. He sat through another guy and our feelings for eachother were drastically increasing around this time. He even tried to get me jealous a lot because he had fallen for me before I had fallen for him (since I was more focused on the real life guys). Now that I look back I feel so bad because he had to sit there and watch me like other people while he was falling harder and harder in love with me.
Anyways, during the time of my last real life relationship, me and Luis were so close. We were flirting, saying ILY and all that, and falling at the speed of light into eachother's hearts. My boyfriend at the time figured this out, and since he had already found someone else, it was easy for us both to move on.
You would think that Luis and I just jumped into eachother's arms and are living a happily ever after, right? Wrong.
I still didn't want to do long distance, and he had never tried it and wasn't looking forward to it either. He didn't know if he could handle the distance, and neither of us knew if we worth worth eachother's pain. So we called ourselves "lovers". This basically meant that we would act like people in a relationship. Commitment. That was the big thing. No hooking up with other people, no flirting, none of that stuff. And it worked. Neither of us went for anyone else because the bond between our souls and hearts were so strong it is still to this day impossible for us to think the slightest kinkiest attraction-filled things about anybody else. We were growing stronger day after day, hour after hour, minute after minute, second after second. All of our friends and family members knew about this and they always asked us if we were dating yet or going to go out soon. Well, finally, it came.
In the early afternoon of March 27th, 2010, spring break for me, Luis asked me out while I was at a place in Miami called Parrot Jungle (we have an inside joke about Parrots, so it was a pretty fun day filled with joking and stuff). He didn't just come out with it, it actually took some coaching. We were talking about how we wish we could be together and he told me that he wished he could be with me, then I said, "In real life, or as a couple?" and he said, "Both." Then I just came out with it and said, "Then ask me, because I want to be with you too." And he did. It was the happiest moment of my life. I was shaking from happyness and my smile was touching my ears. It had finally happened. We were finally able to call ourselves a couple, we could finally show it to the world. We weren't afraid of judgement, of the criticism. Because when its love, you just don't care what anybody thinks. You know what it is, and thats all that matters.
We have gone through a lot. We fight constantly, and over the silliest things, and have come close to some pretty bad break ups. We realize that no relationship doesn't have fighting. And if yours hasn't, you will. Fighting is showing the care in the relationship. And I know he cares, because if he didn't he wouldn't get upset with me over the small things nobody usually notices. We are starting to not let our pride and stubborn-ness get the better of us, and we are starting to learn how to cope with the anger besides yelling at eachother and cussing and making eachother feel bad.
We have met in real life.
On July 15th, 2010, only a short time before our 4 month anniversary, I met him for the first time. A little over a month before I had the great idea to send him here for part of the summer. It was going to be hard because I was planning on going to a concert later in the summer, and it happened to be right in the middle of the time he could come. He'd either have to come before or after. Then, we had the idea that he could come with me. He didn't want me going alone anyways, since concerts can be dangerous. I think this was the greatest idea ever. He got to stay with me for two weeks. Yes, in my house. No, we did not share a room. He slept in mine and I slept in my oldest sister's room while she (who is 19 and has been with her LDR boyfriend for 4 years) was visiting her own LDR boyfriend. He would wake me up around 6 am and we would go into my room and just lay down, cuddle, and go back to sleep, or I would wake up and I would tackle him while he was asleep, and then we'd just fall asleep again. We took a lot of naps together, and had plenty of time for physical contact. Most people think it was pretty gross how we were pretty much always touching, but when you don't see someone, you want to have physical contact with, for a long time, then when you have the chance you take it and you use it. We talked, but not as much as we touched. I can honestly say that the whole experience felt like a dream. It still doesn't seem like it had ever happened. Only the pictures and the memories are there to prove that it was real. He is back in Mexico, and we are trying to get him here for Christmas/New Years, and I might be going there next summer to go camping/fishing with him and my dad, also to meet his family.
This was very long, but we have a very long story.
He is my fairytale prince, and we are definitely going to have our happily ever after. (:
3/27/10-forever. <3
Luiisie + Caroliine.
back to webcam..
My name is Caroline, and this is the story of how I met the love of my life, Luis.
[he already posted it, but I think my version will tell more]
Alright,
it all started around...a little over three years ago.
We both joined this MMORPG called FlyFF. I was currently dating somebody from there, his name was David. He was my first ever long distance relationship, and my biggest mistake. I had convinced myself that I was madly in love with him, when we all knew it was going to end. Anyways, David introduced me to Luis maybe a year after I met him. I had seen him around on the game, but I had never talked to him. When I did for that first time, I felt the connection. We ALWAYS talked, and would talk in caps and use ! just to show how excited we were how to talk to eachother, haha. This friendship went downhill quite fast because David would be racist to Luis, since Luis is Mexican, and David and I are both from America. David pretty much forbid me from talking to Luis because they had gotten in a fight and Luis called him fat and pretty much pissed him off for the last time. Luis and I talked a little but our friendship had drastically decreased. Then over a year ago, I ended things with David. Luis was one of the first people I told, and he had my back all through it. He kept me going when I was upset and was going to run back into David's arms. I dumped David for a ton of reasons. But this isn't about him. So I'm not going to explain it. Anyways, David started telling Luis all these nasty things about me and the first thing Luis did was ask me if they were true..and we joked about it. He didn't believe David at all, and we just sat there making fun of the kid who was now trying to ruin my life.
After David, I dated a few other LDR guys. Me and Luis' bond still hadn't grown back up much quite yet. So we stopped talking for a few months. In these months I dated those other LDR guys, and I finally gave up on them. I thought "this isn't for me" and I started going after guys in real life. Well, Luis ended up talking to me again around this time. I had, I guess, fallen for a guy, who just used me to get another girl. Luis told me the straight up truth that he sucked and won't change and won't ever love me. He didn't sugar coat it, or try to give me hopes. He just told me the straight out truth. He sat through another guy and our feelings for eachother were drastically increasing around this time. He even tried to get me jealous a lot because he had fallen for me before I had fallen for him (since I was more focused on the real life guys). Now that I look back I feel so bad because he had to sit there and watch me like other people while he was falling harder and harder in love with me.
Anyways, during the time of my last real life relationship, me and Luis were so close. We were flirting, saying ILY and all that, and falling at the speed of light into eachother's hearts. My boyfriend at the time figured this out, and since he had already found someone else, it was easy for us both to move on.
You would think that Luis and I just jumped into eachother's arms and are living a happily ever after, right? Wrong.
I still didn't want to do long distance, and he had never tried it and wasn't looking forward to it either. He didn't know if he could handle the distance, and neither of us knew if we worth worth eachother's pain. So we called ourselves "lovers". This basically meant that we would act like people in a relationship. Commitment. That was the big thing. No hooking up with other people, no flirting, none of that stuff. And it worked. Neither of us went for anyone else because the bond between our souls and hearts were so strong it is still to this day impossible for us to think the slightest kinkiest attraction-filled things about anybody else. We were growing stronger day after day, hour after hour, minute after minute, second after second. All of our friends and family members knew about this and they always asked us if we were dating yet or going to go out soon. Well, finally, it came.
In the early afternoon of March 27th, 2010, spring break for me, Luis asked me out while I was at a place in Miami called Parrot Jungle (we have an inside joke about Parrots, so it was a pretty fun day filled with joking and stuff). He didn't just come out with it, it actually took some coaching. We were talking about how we wish we could be together and he told me that he wished he could be with me, then I said, "In real life, or as a couple?" and he said, "Both." Then I just came out with it and said, "Then ask me, because I want to be with you too." And he did. It was the happiest moment of my life. I was shaking from happyness and my smile was touching my ears. It had finally happened. We were finally able to call ourselves a couple, we could finally show it to the world. We weren't afraid of judgement, of the criticism. Because when its love, you just don't care what anybody thinks. You know what it is, and thats all that matters.
We have gone through a lot. We fight constantly, and over the silliest things, and have come close to some pretty bad break ups. We realize that no relationship doesn't have fighting. And if yours hasn't, you will. Fighting is showing the care in the relationship. And I know he cares, because if he didn't he wouldn't get upset with me over the small things nobody usually notices. We are starting to not let our pride and stubborn-ness get the better of us, and we are starting to learn how to cope with the anger besides yelling at eachother and cussing and making eachother feel bad.
We have met in real life.
On July 15th, 2010, only a short time before our 4 month anniversary, I met him for the first time. A little over a month before I had the great idea to send him here for part of the summer. It was going to be hard because I was planning on going to a concert later in the summer, and it happened to be right in the middle of the time he could come. He'd either have to come before or after. Then, we had the idea that he could come with me. He didn't want me going alone anyways, since concerts can be dangerous. I think this was the greatest idea ever. He got to stay with me for two weeks. Yes, in my house. No, we did not share a room. He slept in mine and I slept in my oldest sister's room while she (who is 19 and has been with her LDR boyfriend for 4 years) was visiting her own LDR boyfriend. He would wake me up around 6 am and we would go into my room and just lay down, cuddle, and go back to sleep, or I would wake up and I would tackle him while he was asleep, and then we'd just fall asleep again. We took a lot of naps together, and had plenty of time for physical contact. Most people think it was pretty gross how we were pretty much always touching, but when you don't see someone, you want to have physical contact with, for a long time, then when you have the chance you take it and you use it. We talked, but not as much as we touched. I can honestly say that the whole experience felt like a dream. It still doesn't seem like it had ever happened. Only the pictures and the memories are there to prove that it was real. He is back in Mexico, and we are trying to get him here for Christmas/New Years, and I might be going there next summer to go camping/fishing with him and my dad, also to meet his family.
This was very long, but we have a very long story.
He is my fairytale prince, and we are definitely going to have our happily ever after. (:
3/27/10-forever. <3
Luiisie + Caroliine.
back to webcam..
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