i spent 6 mnths in england with my SO
he still lives at home, so i was staying there with him and his parents
i cleaned while i was there, i helped cook, i did laundry,
i helped care for his mom, she had a stroke 16 years ago and lost feeling on her right side.
i did alot there, now im hearing stuff from my SO and his sister in law
that his dad was saying i didnt clean enough, i ddint do this or that
its make me feel pretty shitty if im honest, why couldnt he say this to my face
when i was there?
Anyone have any views on this?
How should i go about dealing with it?
Should i say something to his dad?
Im not sure what i should do
Help please?
he still lives at home, so i was staying there with him and his parents
i cleaned while i was there, i helped cook, i did laundry,
i helped care for his mom, she had a stroke 16 years ago and lost feeling on her right side.
i did alot there, now im hearing stuff from my SO and his sister in law
that his dad was saying i didnt clean enough, i ddint do this or that
its make me feel pretty shitty if im honest, why couldnt he say this to my face
when i was there?
Anyone have any views on this?
How should i go about dealing with it?
Should i say something to his dad?
Im not sure what i should do
Help please?