I've been in plenty of LDRs before, but none of them have meant as much to me as this one does. My bf lives in nc & I live in la, we've known each other for 4 years, dated for 2 years I couple years ago and whatever reason just quit talking.... We reconnected a couple months ago after 2 years of not talking, and as it turns out we're still in love. we've never been happier. I start college in a month and he's worried that i'm gonna meet someone else here and leave him; I've told him multiple times that he's the only one i want, honestly he's the guy I plan on marrying, we've made life-long commitments in the last couple months, but he still worries about me leaving him. A couple years ago we were dating on & off all the time and I left him a lot. He's just left in the past without any warning, months went by without us talking while we were together back then. My parents know we're together and they're ok with it, his don't know bc he doesn't want to answer a million questions, which i understand bc before mine knew (the way they found it is bc he makes me smile all the time when we're texting) i didn't really want them to know bc i didn't want to answer a million questions. surprisingly though not many were asked, thank god. he's an atheist, i'm a christian, but we've talk about religion before and respect each other's beliefs so it's not an issue. He plans on coming down here in about 3 years either to visit or stay, just depends on how things work out college wise for both of us, mainly him. He's 16 turns 17 in november, i'm 18. he's only guy i've met that's been able to breakdown every wall that i've ever had up for any reason, he makes me smile and laugh all the time, he's so sweet, he's extremely easy to talk to and never judges me. we're so perfect together.... i just wish there was some way to make him understand that i'm not leaving him regardless of what happens in college, i don't care about any other guy i just want him. i'm sure some of you have had this problem, if you could advice would be great. thanks for taking the time to read this.
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