and somehow you know he's the one...

i feel at home on this cite, knowing there are other people going through what i go through. I love my girl, even though now she has a boyfriend cuz she said she cant take not seeing me every day. i understand that. but i wont give up on her. i love her forever

I know how that feels And I know how much it sucks yet again I guess it depends on the situation. Like my bf used to tell me that he wishes I was her and that she doesnt love me half as much as I love him and so on. And I accepted his step to date that girl cause I loved him and I wanted the best for him and if its her and not me I will accept it.
For some people it probably sounds weird but I knew he wasnt lying. And I've let him make the experience cause I made the same thing just that I made them like 2 years ago and well cause of how he was raised he had to make the experiences now. His parents raised him to not trust anyone he has never met in real life etc and not even talk to them but my bf still fell in love with me and he first had to sort things out cause his mind said no but his heart said yes.
But yea we're together now and even if its gettin hard at times we make it together.

i feel at home on this cite, knowing there are other people going through what i go through. I love my girl, even though now she has a boyfriend cuz she said she cant take not seeing me every day. i understand that. but i wont give up on her. i love her forever

Your girlfriend has a boyfriend that's not you..?

[SUGARBEAR]

i feel at home on this cite, knowing there are other people going through what i go through. I love my girl, even though now she has a boyfriend cuz she said she cant take not seeing me every day. i understand that. but i wont give up on her. i love her forever

my gf and i' s parents don't know either, My parents abandoned me when I was 16 and moved to Europe so I guess my relationship status isn't really important to them. we talk sometimes but rarely (few times a year) I just told them I've been dating someone black and that alone damn near killed them.
Her parents know and have met and knew we once dated but they never knew we got back together, her parents are VERY religious and treated her awful while we were dating, we've been dating on the downlow for like..8 months?

woaw, thats bad :O. But your parents abandoned you, so why did they get shocked when you told them you date someone black. I dont know if i would even tell them i date someone if i were in your place, obviously they dont really care that much about you (if they abandoned you), so why do they have to know?!
About her parents hmm thats something difficult :/ i never like strict religious parents. It's always christian has to marry christian, muslim has to marry muslim, etc. They dont even look at a person, first thing they'll probably ask is 'what religion does he/she have?' And they'll probably have ridiculous rules also for their children.
Well i dont know how old you guys are :/ but at one point you and your SO have to make your own choices. She is obviously not so strict religious (as her parents) as she is dating you, so when she'll move out of the house, who's going to stop her from being with you? It's just a rough time now, but i bet you guys will get through it. Just keep being there for each other =)

Im sorry to hear that
but maybe you could find an appartment and move in together? you'd be closer first of all and then of course no parents to threat your gf bad
i wish you all the best! i know how much it sucks when parents get so cruel
my dad tends to call my bf "virtual only and he doesnt exist" and he says it in a way that it breaks my heart the worst way possible.

[loveonspeedial]

my gf and i' s parents don't know either, My parents abandoned me when I was 16 and moved to Europe so I guess my relationship status isn't really important to them. we talk sometimes but rarely (few times a year) I just told them I've been dating someone black and that alone damn near killed them.
Her parents know and have met and knew we once dated but they never knew we got back together, her parents are VERY religious and treated her awful while we were dating, we've been dating on the downlow for like..8 months?

exactly!
plus in the end if your friends join and you wanna go see your love than... yea a few people too much haha
oh boy >___> parents make it so difficult

Yes, i know what you mean. I like traveling too, see new places. Just too bad i am not really allowed to travel alone to other countries and if you have to wait for your friends to join -_-.. and even then, most of them only like having fun and partying, while i love nature, art, culture etc.

yea mine is in the states :/
yea I know, I have to do the whole Visa stuff aswell yet it would be easier for me to go see him... and in the end, honestly me as bein a travel addict I'd prefer goin to see him, but people dont understand :/

Yeah I know!
Yea people ask me why he isnt comin over cause he's like you almost 20 but yea as LMH already said, different countries/continents, different culture and basically way of thinkin etc
We'll see how it goes tho
Maybe we can go on a trip together Raphaela xD Where is your bf?

Yeah exactly :/ people here also expect him to come to me, but it is much more work for him with visa and stuff. If i am right yours lives in the US right? well mine in South america, so I dont think we can go together

Yeah I know!
Yea people ask me why he isnt comin over cause he's like you almost 20 but yea as LMH already said, different countries/continents, different culture and basically way of thinkin etc
We'll see how it goes tho
Maybe we can go on a trip together Raphaela xD Where is your bf?

I know how you feel. My parents are kinda.. against my LDR as well. And mine also lives on another continent, so i cant just go to him for a quick visit. I also once tried to visit my SO and i asked for permission to my parents. I tried to talk to them a few times, but they are ok if i talk to him but they dont believe in 'online love' its all fake and imaginary to them. But i give you the advice to try talking to your parents, tell alot about him. And if you want to visit him, dont just think 'oh i am already 18 i can just go, doesnt matter if they are against it'. You should show them you care about their opinion, but this is also your life. The only way they will listen to you and respect your opinion and choices is when you think wisely about your choices and dont act like a little kid. Just teach them you are not 5 years anymore and they can not decide for you anymore, you make your own choices and you will make the right ones.
I must say, it all sounds so easy when you write it, but i still have problems with my parents *sigh* and i am almost 20.
Glück mit deinen Eltern! :P

Thanks for all the replies!

I tried to make everythin as good as possible, so just as you all said, so they wouldnt have anythin to complain about but I guess I kinda forced it upon me so that it didnt work (my fault but yea doesnt matter that much right now)
But I am plannin to go see him (my 3rd attempt actually) and Im pretty sure that this time I will do it even if my parents will be against it.
But I wont give up
@LMH: yea gorillaz fan (I call him 2D and he calls me noodl)

and btw thanks everyone for the support, it feels good gettin advice/opinions/support from people who know what Im talkin about lol

[MTK]

I would just say that you shouldn't live your life for your parents, don't do everything that they say you should. What they say to you is advice and not something that you should follow religiously, you have your own opinion. They can tell you what you can or cannot do in their house but they should in no way be able to decide who you date because that is something that is your decision and not your parents.

[paulawriteslove]

Try not to give the parents anything to complain about