Is it love?

[Laika]

We actually just spent time together 2 weeks ago irl, I just found myself to not always be in the mood there either.. We did have a good time and the goodbye Was emotional for both of us.

We are only going to be able to close the distance in about 4 years min.. it will most Likely take a bit longer because of education and the fact that he have not been able to save up money for our future yet.. its hard to find a part time job there and then he got uni aswell..

We would plan on closing it one day.. but it just seems really far away..

I find myself sometimes being more happy talking to other people than him.

I don't feel like I can't handle the LDR Anymore..

We usually meet every 6 month.. sometimes, its mostly during the summer, winter and the christmas.

[Rezie]

Something I struggle with aswell. Could be falling pur of love and relationship has run its course. Or could be that you just can't do the LDR anymore. Those are hard to know. Do you spend time together in IRL? How do you feel when you are physically together? Do you plan on closing the distance?

[snow]

This hits very close to home. This is how I felt about my ex boyfriend before I ended it.
I just didn't feel like spending time with him, I didn't feel like talking to him, skyping with him, playing games with him and every effort he made to be with me just made it worse.

You might have fallen out of love.

[Chris516]

Your confusion is typical for an LDR. Because we yearn for CDR, but sometimes too much. That it makes us begin to question being in an LDR.

[lovestoread]

Only you can answer that no one else can answer that for you

[Laika]

Hello, so i have been together With SO for 4 years. The relationship have gone through lots of ups and downs With me trying to bak up and then he somehow made me "take" it back so we stayed together and had some really good times after and had a great time When we met again irl.

The thing is that I easily find myself wondering whether I truly love This guy Anymore? .. I find him to be a bit annoying and often a bit too klingy since he always whats to be near me all the time in games and often wants to Call me his wife in games even though we are not that.. Just so people are aware that im his.

The other thing is that i'm never in the mood to go on cam for him to cyber etc.. it doesnt matter if its small things.. but I just can't find myself to want to do it.. which leads to him often asking me.. telling me i dont have to do much.. but it just makes me more annoyed and less in the mood..

He easily Gets jealous if im texting another guy and he always wants to be in the same guild and place as me in games.. meaning i cant really go do guild stuff without him wanting to be there waiting for me untill i finish.. And I just feel like im not getting the space i need and it Gets too much..

I'm just so lost atm.. I obviously care for the guy.. but is it love Anymore i dont know? :/