The right time?
My bf & I have been together for almost 8 months and most of the months we were fisically together just recently (3 months ago) we became long distance. We have talked about our future together & getting engaged. He is soon to come in august to visit me which would be out first yr together. I have no doubt that i want to be with him because our love is just natural for so many reasons this time its so diferent, i feel myself, it feels just right. We have both discussed the fact to get engaged when he comes visits but im not sure. If its not in august he will go away soon to state trooper academy which he will be away for almost 8 month for training. I have only almost 2 more yrs left of college & im only 19 yrs old . Probably after the training and getting the job it will get harder for him to travel. Not to mention that my mom is holding me back because she doesnt want me to visit him without her coming with me. So.. after a brief explanation. Would august be the right time?? Should we wait until he gets out of the academy? HELP!
Heres my opinion once he gets acepted to academy it will be from 4 to 8 months to answer him adding to that the actual time he has to go to training which will be 8 months. It will leave with me graduating and no time to plan wedding. Am I planing things to much? Is it good to have things so planed out? ugh.. any advice?
Heres my opinion once he gets acepted to academy it will be from 4 to 8 months to answer him adding to that the actual time he has to go to training which will be 8 months. It will leave with me graduating and no time to plan wedding. Am I planing things to much? Is it good to have things so planed out? ugh.. any advice?