In our conversation of the last phone call, my SO has noticed he has another friend now. He said he had already told to this friend about me. Also he said me he wants to stay to keep in touch though now he thinks her with higher priolity. But he has no will to get married with her. I think he feels an attachment to me as we have known for 20 years (sometime very closed, sometime not). It is a new situation for us he is not closed to me as he has another friend. So I have been really confused.

We have had a contact with skype, phone calls, & texting many times per week. Of course, we both have own work, 8 hours time difference. The time to have a contact is very limited. But I am a bit shocked I have not found his change in his everyday life. Because at least I have been honest to him and I have trusted him. The simple phone call which I wrote to my blog might be a sign.

I have told about this story to my good friend. She says he seems to be honest and it is better to make it open than to hide both of relationships. She also says some people can keep multi relationships, some people prefer to one-to-one relationship.

It is sure I, myself, prefer to one-to-one. It is too hard for me to think he has multi-relationships. But still I love him and now it is better to keep a relationship with him than lose him. I may keep this situation for a while though it is very hard.

I would like to talk with him more about this problem but he would not like and he tries to avoid to talk about this with me.

I do not know how I solve this problem.