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Irina_Linn started a blog post I kinda need advice :)I kinda need advice :)
It's been almost 4 months since I am at home. From that,I only worked in June (full month) and all the other time I just sit,trying to figure out my life.I mean I'd like to move to Europe but have no clue how to.I am tired of working for 1-2 months and then quitting,so I am also trying to find a decent job,which I can stay at for a long time.By now I am a freelancer and I earn quite a satisfactory amount of cash,but I guess boredom is killing me.See,I am lost deciding where to work and how,so I mostly sit home doing freelance job.All this thinking really pressures me a lot and in addition,almost every 2-3 days we are having minor fights with my bf.And from then on I start panicking,thinking "Holy Molly,it must be the END because normal loving couples don't fight so frequently".Its been a year since we are together btw.So I am wondering,is that ok to be having these minor arguments or this is a sign of sth more serious?I tend to believe my boredom leads to over-thinking and looking for the reasons to rant about.Do you think I am correct?You must be logged in to post a comment.
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I know from my past how 'boring' a freelance job can be from time to time but you need to see the goal behind it. you work and earn money cause you need it later. for a meeting. for visits, for your life, for maybe starting to save money to move over. for what ever which is important to have it. you don't work just for fun
And if it doesn't matter where you are - why you don't go longer to your BF location and work from there. Just to see if this will solve some problems you both fighting about? At this point you can find out too, if you really like europe or his country that much that you can imagine to stay there. you will be independent cause of your freelance job (cause you said you earn good money with it), if you don't like it than, you go back to your home.