Good results! We talked about it and I will be moving with him to Indiana next November/December! We will both be in National Guard units, different ones of course, since we have different jobs, and we will be attending the same school! He even agreed to defrost my car since I'm moving to a colder climate to be with him! oh yeah!
We have our reasons why we're doing it this way versus him coming down to Georgia where I come from. Since I have flight benefits through Delta Airlines, it's cheaper for me to fly home every now and then to see my family. The school we'll be going to has a national ranked School of Business and is better than the ones close to home. I have no problem never living in humid Georgia again, especially since all my friends moved away. And like I mentioned earlier, it's easy for me to visit my family!
God, I'm so ecstatically happy! We already talked about pooling our furniture together and living in a place with garage and a bath tub. Hell, he's already asking permission for a man cave and laying down the man cave laws! (really? I can't go in there unless he's in there? Welp, I guess he'll be the one to clean it too!)
Oh our parents are not going to be happy! Well, my dad and his mom, but my mom and his dad are just fine with it. Not that we've told them or anything. Ok. well, I already told my mom and she's like "I kinda figured that would happen." She's already okay with it. And his dad won't care, in the least. His mom is just very religious and doesn't want her boy to live in sin. My dad is very against leaving home on the whim of a boy. I don't think planning this out almost a year in advance is anywhere close to a whim but he'll still see it that way.
Oh but I don't even care! I'm so happy and excited right now! I won't even get to see Seth until tomorrow but I'm so excited about our future! Its so bright and shiny! lol! Someone said I sounded happy and giddy in one of my previous posts but I don't think it lights a candle to this one!!!
But on to subject of my topic. 5 love languages. Gary Chapman. Wonderful man. I'd like to say that I distribute all 5 languages, though I guess Gifts is what I dish out as love the most (Seth's is quality time). But when Seth asked how many presents that I had for him, because he only had my Christmas gift (and clone a willy, but that doesn't count) and not a birthday or Vday gift, I didn't get upset even though I gave him quite a few things for Christmas and his Bday (which is only 3 days before mine) and I have two things for him for Vday. I guess I'm disappointed but I didn't want to talk about it since thats a guy thing and whatever. He dragged it out of me though. He knew I wasn't happy about it. I commented that he was one of the few guys in the world that remembered their significant other's bday and still did not get them a present, especially since I was really upset about it before, when I knew he hadn't gotten me a present. I explain that I didn't care about price or quantity, its truly the thought process behind the gifts that I care about, to see how well he knows me and what I like. So now he's mad at himself for being a bad boy friend. I call that progress! He's dishing out the other love languages too, like services (agreeing to defrost my car), words of affirmation (my hand written love letter) , and physical touch (we're going to make his clone while I'm there! yes, I know he does not mean sexual touch, but close enough). Progress, progress, progress!!!!
Congratulations on finally having a plan!