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I am a petty jealous possesive person. I guess its good Nathan see's this fully so he can't say he didn't know what he was getting into when he marries me. But really he puts up with a lot. I can be so petty and ask for such selfish requests. It has just been on my mind, off and on and I had been trying to let it go but insane me just can't do that. I don't know why but i cant let things go, it just sits and stirs in my mind. All I kept thinking is when I go home will it happen again, will he go for comfort, ect ect. And I put myself in this depressed mood. But I just let it out and he just like that resolved all my worries. Just like always, makes everything all better. I truly have found the one person im meant to be with, who can handle all of me, all the crazy that I come with.
I love him so so much, ah and now I can breathe again, feel so much better
I know its horrible, but I just wanted all gone, no more, never have to hear about no going out and he just like that says no more.... Im horrible to ask him to do that..... am i?
I know its horrible, but I just wanted all gone, no more, never have to hear about no going out and he just like that says no more.... Im horrible to ask him to do that..... am i?
I'm not sure I understood this correctly, but do you mean you asked him not to go out? Or not to speak to you about going out with his mates? If either of these are the case, I can bluntly tell you that yes, you will have problems, not only because that's a massive restriction on something that's commonplace but because as much as you might think, it's not going to ease your worries/concerns, if that's the reason you asked not to hear about them. I didn't want to hear about my SO's ex when we weren't together but I still had strong feelings for him, but I can't say it helped ease any worries or concerns, more that it eliminated the emotional charge I SHOULD have been working on correcting, instead of allowing it and fostering it to continue.
If I misunderstood, then I apologise, and I'm glad your SO is so understanding.
No he's always allowed to go out, and when were apart I encourage it even more, and I like all his friends i've met and talked to, and he has friends i dont know personally, and I want him to do things and be social. This was a specific bother I had, it wasn't limiting him to staying home and not talking to anyone. It was specific stuff that I saw and hurt me, even if it was unintentional, and I told him he didn't have to but it bothers me, and he loves me enough to ease my worries. Sorry im being vague I didn't want to give to much details in respect to him, but blogging helps me feel better, as a vent.
Oh. I didn't know the question was rhetorical. xD I don't see anything wrong with that, then, really, if it's a behaviour you're worried about and not limiting him from anything. I think it's normal for partners to bring up behaviours they want to see changed.
If I misunderstood, then I apologise, and I'm glad your SO is so understanding.