Hi guys this is my first blog....on the internet lol so im going to talk about love..and life...and food..and whatever else i can come up with. So first and most importantly is to introduce myself.
My name is Marilyn, my SO name is Vicente aka miChente. We met when i was 15, in hispanic culture we have what is called Quinceaneras aka Sweet 15 the equivalent of a Sweet 16, and so for my Sweet 15, i had to have a court of young men who would promise to be there for me and to care for me and be my friends. I didnt know any guys from school who would be willing to be part of my court and learn how to dance and what not and so my mom looked for a group of guys who could be my chambelanes (companions..i guess thats the translation lol)
She found 4 guys that were related to her friend, it was, cande, vicente, gil and juan, the fifth guy was my child hood friend. Cande, Vicente are brothers and Gil is there cousin, Juan...i dont know how they're related lol but they're related lol Anyways when i met them i was shy, i did my best to get along with them, they taught me how to dance and they made me laugh.
Anyways after my party and what not I kept in touch with them, and well they lived two blocks away from me lol and so in the summer their family would invite mine to go to the park and thats where they'd play soccer and i'd join them. Sometimes on Myspace (darn that was long ago!) His cousin or brother would tell me that miChente had a crush on me, that he would tlk about me, smile and blush when i was mentioned, etc. I didnt believe them, laughed it off and well miChente and I never really tlked so I wasn't going to fall for him.
A year or two passed, we would encounter eachother every now and then, i had had a crush on him, but i had left that in the past, didnt see a future, on November '09 he invited me to a party...out of the blue, he sent me a message on Myspace inviting me to a party. I was shocked, we started talking through messages, we we're getting to know eachother, and being that i was still a minor my parents said no..i couldnt go to the party...eventhough miChente's parents were goin to! -_- So i tohught this guy is going to stop tlking to me...but it didnt...days became weeks, and weeks became months.
Finally he gave me his # and i gave him mine, and he was the first one to txt me ^-^ from then on, it was him always txting me first, every now and them i'd txt him but he'd be always the first one...then our txts became flirts and i started falling for him all over again, he once sent me a txt saying i love you in japanese...but when i translted it, it was too late to reply :/
During our talks one of the thing that left me sad was that he was going to Mexico, he was leaving to study at a college in Puebla bcuz well he couldn't study here in the US. Even with that in mind...i still thought of a possibility...but I had never thought that it would become a LDR.
After he left, i was very sad, he'd become a close friend, i had gotten used to him. A yr after that he asked me to be his gf on aim...it was one yr to get to know each other...and for him to summon up the courage to ask me to be his gf. He was afraid that if i didnt go down and visit him in the summer, that i would've moved on and found another love, in the end we've been in our LDR for 3 months.
I hope you read this...lol and if your still reading this then i want to thank you! My first relationship, and its LDR, im new to the whole gf/bf thing..and to top it off its LDR...adding more stress and more love to it.
So guys i'll end it of here...but before I leave...tell me.
What is your story?
hardest part is not being able to talk to him as much. we only talked everyday because his school was on break. lol. Once the break was over, he was back to working in a super small pueblo with no cell service and a shady internet connection. stinks! It is THE hardest part, not having regular communication. I am going to see him in April though so... woo hoo