XD I dont like the idea that a woman should work or get an education and still have to deal with her house hold duties and add children to it! I think that it should be 50/50 but some people like my dad believe that a woman should do all those things, its enough that a man works. I guess thats why we clash a lot, we are on opposite ends of the spectrum. Im a feminist...he's a machista. I havent had this tlk with my SO...im saving it for when I visit him.
Not sure what he thinks...but from what I know and seen he's a good man. He helps his mom alot at the family business, he knows how to cook, he does the chores, and he does laundry!!!


OMG!!! He's the perfect man for me!! lmao nah I dont want to even think about marriage right now...im too young for such things >.> but I can still look at wedding dresses...right?
I guess my SO is like that because he has no sisters, its only him and his older brother. Both of them are awesome! They are gentlemen.
I feel awakward though...yesterday he sent me a message saying that everytime he reads the letters i sent him he falls in love more and more with me. I guess im not used to receiving that kind of love. Im used to loving others and being super lovey-dovey at times but when a guy is being lovey-dovey...its weird XD Am i overthinking?
Ok so wats ur take on the woman-man roles in society?
Do you like ur man to be lovey-dovey...or is it awkward too? lol
and as far as the lovey-dovey stuff i love it. I didn't know guys could be so mushy lol thought it was just in books.....course he isn't always romantic..... i wish.... lol no but when he is he makes my heart pound, like he told me while he was working at a wedding that the whole time he was picturing us, and another time he brought home a rose from a wedding because he said it reminded him of me and just ahh i love those things, not awkward but i do get shy lol
Its taking quite a lot to get used to, the fact that he can be so sentimental. But in a way he took a while and is still not quite used to how sentimental I am. We're both used to be caretakers, and fulfilling other peoples' needs unconditionally. To get pampered for ourselves is very different!
but I also thought that only in books did men become romantic...but I guess I was wrong XD