So my SO has a band and I have two of the group members as Facebook friends, I know one who's name is Armando. The second is brian...and I never met him. So tOday I received a message from Brian asking if I wanted to be part of his band that he was starting, he wanted me as a backup dancer. He said he was startIng the band behind Chentes back (my so). He then realized that I was chentes gf and he was like "please don't say anything, don't tell them!"

Here's the problem..should I tell chente and Armando? I don't want to hide this from them but if I do tell them maybe it would result in something like a fight or something...u.u I could also tell Chentes brother but I'm no sure. My loyalty lies with Chente but I know that he had a small problem with a group member a few months ago and he cursed him out and what not...so I'm scared of the reaction and the consequences. Any suggestions?