So finally, after 16.5 months of waiting, we've almost made it to the visa interview. And I am absolutely terrified. I thought I would feel more confident going into this. I am not worried that they'll doubt our relationship, we have plenty of relationship proof, 5 years together (2 of which we've been married), children together. But there are a couple of things that really worry me and they worry me so much that I haven't even told anyone about the interview except for my parents (and now you guys) because I'm afraid we'll have more delays.

Firstly, DNA. I learned a few months ago that often in cases like this (step-child), they request DNA testing. If they request that, it'll put our case back another 2-3 months from what I've read. Now there just isn't anything we can do to prevent this. My SO has his name on her birth certificate, he has court documents to show full custody, and has dozens of pictures with her throughout the years. Plus, they really look alike. But will that be enough?

Secondly, I am worried about the Affidavit of Support. Usually, if you don't make enough money (or any, in my case since foreign income doesn't count), you can show assets of a certain amount that would support your SO. Thanks to my grandparents, I have assets WAY above the set amount. But there is still a chance that the Embassy would say that they want a sponsor who is currently employed. In this case, I would either have to find a co-sponsor or go back to the US early, find a job, and then send that proof to the embassy. I literally cannot fathom asking anyone to co-sponsor with me. I think it's such a huge thing to ask of someone and I'm the kind of person that doesn't even want to borrow $5 from someone! I can't ask my parents because they are both retired and I don't want to ask my brother. He hasn't even met my husband, I just don't feel comfortable asking him to sign a legally-binding document for him.

And lastly, from what I've heard, I won't be allowed into the embassy with him. After much practice, he now knows all of the documents and how they are organized and we've practiced interview questions. But I hate to think that I wouldn't be there to defend us if a problem arose.

So this is where I am- full of anxiety. Of course, all of this worry could be a waste. Maybe neither of these things will be an issue. But I am scared. I just want to go home and I can't imagine having to spend another 2+ months here.

Nothing I can do for now. Send us your positive vibes on Thursday please!