We are both in high school.
Both of our parent's doubted our relationship in the first place, and after the move the doubt only became intensified.
In the hot tub the other night, my Dad told me he was impressed by my boyfriend and I. He explained how he couldn't have seen himself being that loyal or "tied down" at that age, and how I have really matured ever since the move. He went on and on about his sense of pride with me and my relationship, which was honestly, a relief to hear-
Previous to this night in the hot tub, my whole family, students and staff at my current and old school, our friends, and his whole family, consistently not only doubted us, but talked down to us for our decision to remain together. I was even harassed by one of my new-teacher's after they found out my already "fake" relationship was with someone of a different ethnicity.
It felt so redeeming to finally hear someone I love (besides my baby) tell me they fully support my relationship, and how they're impressed by the stamina and perseverance my boyfriend and I have shown throughout our circumstances.
It stings a little that it took so long for him to support me and show his support, but I understand where he is coming from.
I just felt like sharing this because I know someone else is going through a similar situation, where people you love are denying you hope, or are talking down about your relationship and your abilities to stay loyal and faithful.
But eventually, these people in your life are going to recognize that this person who you love so very much and refuse to give up on, is a person they should respect and show admiration to. Regardless of your stereotype.
