This is one of those blogs that I'm honestly posting as a blog instead of a thread because while I want to write the words and get them out on paper, I don't necessarily care for a whole lot of opinions. SUPPORT would be great, OPINIONS... not so much. I'm getting those enough here. Anyway...

So as most of you reading this know, my SO and I have been together for just shy of two months. In fact one of the sticky notes that I left on his monitor Monday when I left said "Happy 7 weeks!" or something like that. Not very long at all, and to be honest, we hadn't known each other very long when we started dating, or even met for that matter. We were casual acquaintances in a game, and both interested, but never really chatted OOC (out of character).

Anyway, my SO is very actively working on relocating to North Carolina (about 450 miles away from where he is now, and where he grew up). I am very clearly really excited about this. It's probably about 2 months away from becoming a reality but I'm really not liking the responses that I'm getting.

Yes. I know that we have only known each other two months. Yes. I know that it seems that things are moving fast. No. I am not planning on living with him any time soon. No. I do not care what you think. PEOPLE ARE DRIVING ME CRAZY. I know that they are trying to help, but it's really not helping. We have a way to make it so that we can see each other more than every couple of weeks. It would be a regular boyfriend girlfriend relationship for people who have been together two months. I would have my own place, he would have his. I DON'T GET IT.

It's really just beating me up that nobody is even trying to understand how it is that we feel or where it is that we're coming from. Instead I'm getting the "you're crazy" and the "you can't trust him, you hardly know him" and the "I'm still afraid when you go visit him that something bad will happen to you". Really?! I mean shut up and keep it to yourself. If that was going to happen, I'm fairly certain I wouldn't have made it back the first time I went to visit. Idiots.

Sorry... I just really had to get that out. You all are the only people who I hope will understand, and if you don't, please be supportive anyway and keep in mind that I just don't care to hear it.

That being said, i just got the cuuuutest Halloween card to send to Ryan and I can't wait until he gets it and I love him and I can't wait to be wrapped up in his arms again!