So as you all may know i'm living in Toronto with my ex boyfriend and i've been here since Oct 25, 2010 (the date is a bit important). Those who don't know his family is from Chile and all of his family is in Chile except him and one of his younger brothers anyways... On monday his dad called him in the morning asking if I was still here to which he said yes she is (I don't speak spanish, but I sure in hell understand a lot of the language) his dad told him that I've been staying here for 4 months (which isn't true it'll be 3 months on the 25th of January) and that I have to be gone by the end of the month no exceptions.

There are some problems with that in:
1. I've been living here for more than 3 days so i'm considered a tenant (even though i'm not paying rent) and I must be given 30 days notice to vacate.
2. The notice must be handwritten and dated and it gives me 30 days from the date written on the note
3. The only person who can kick me out and/or ask me to vacate is the person who's name is on the lease which is not his dad, but his brother. His dad's mind set is I pay so I can say who stays and who goes (sorry but the rental agreements in Canada and Chile are completely different)

The other problems with that is I can't get a hold of my parents and I haven't been able to since the end of December as well as they told me not to come home if being in Canada makes me happy and that they don't want me to come home and be miserable. Lastly even if I could go home my parents can't afford it and my dad has no more passes (he works for the airlines) as he used up all of his for this year for my brother and his family.

So basically if i'm not gone by the end of the month I have to find somewhere else to stay, his dad isn't even being understanding at all that I can't get a hold of my family all he wants is me gone because i'm not paying rent even though I do all of the cooking and cleaning for his two sons one of which won't even clean up after himself. My friend is kind of siding with his dad and it's pissing me off because he won't even stand up to his dad because if he does his dad will stop giving him money. Seriously he's 25 years old and he's an adult he needs to make his own decisions without daddy telling him what he can and can't do. (i'll rant about that another time) Anyways, my friend is siding with his dad telling me even though I can't get a hold of my family I need to find a way to get in contact with them (the other day I called my mom continuously for 2 hours and no answer and no call back, what in the hell am I suppose to do) and that it's my problem that I need to solve (he's not like this, but it's because of his dad).