I've had this discussion with Wes, what feels like thousands of times. All I ask is is one single text that tells me he's going out with his friends. Just 1. Its the easiest thing in the world. Take 30 seconds and text your girlfriend. WHAT A CONCEPT! I hate knowing when he gets out of work and sitting around waiting for him to get home. I know, do something occupy your time, just don't sit around and wait. I don't, I make phone calls, play games, read....but i'm still wondering where the hell he is in the back of my mind. He knows it makes me feel unimportant like I don't matter enough to give me a heads up. He knows I want to feel included in his life, but he does this shit anyway. I mean maybe tonite I can say ok he was tired. But what always starts out as 1 time turns into 2 then 3. I hate it. We didn't talk last night bc he went out with his friends and we probably won't talk again tonite bc again he's out with his friends. I had considered going out tonite, but I said no I want to go home n chat with my bf. He doesn't want to be home and I get it, but i hate feeling shut out. I tell him where I am all the time, and who i'm with bc he didn't like being left out, and not he is doing it to me. /sigh...