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Miss You Issues: Romeo & Juliet
Dear Miss U, I know this relationship is worth it. We wait 6 months or more at a time to spend 2 days together. But the thing is our parents are in control of us. We can only see each other when our parents want to. We live 3 hours apart so our relationship is being dictated by them. When and how we see each other. And it hurts most now because I saw him last weekend and I feel as though the pain will never go. It hurts the most now, than it has ever had before. I feel like I want to g... -
Miss You Issues: Realistic Expectations
Dear Miss U, Hi, I've been in an LDR for 3 months. We have an age difference, but we get along so well. We haven’t met in person yet, but hopefully we will this month. The thing is when we met online he was all over me (Facebook, messenger, and text... always read my Facebook posts) and was the most sweet and romantic guy in this world. I didn’t plan to fall for him, and at the beginning I also told him every time he said he loved me I told him I was not real. But we fell in love and we were... -
Miss You Issues: In The Beginning
Dear Miss U, My girlfriend and I met about two years ago over Facebook, we've been on and off since then but the thing is, we never met. We Skype every day, talk on the phone every night, send each other gifts and other sentimental items in the mail, and do whatever we can to keep our relationship alive. We get a lot of hateful comments from people such as, "What 'relationship?' you're dating online? Get a life." We don't consider our relationship to be an online thing. Yes, that's where we me... -
Miss You Issues: Talking It Out
Dear Miss U,
How to open up on the phone when he says I'm not expressing my feelings?
From Suzie Dear Suzie, Sometimes the simplest things are the hardest. The first things to consider are: Are you expressing your feelings? Do you feel like you are holding back? At the end of the conversation are there things you wish you’d been able to say? Or do you think he’s looking for something that just isn’t there? Some people just aren’t emotionally gushy people. So... -
Miss You Issues: Military Emotions
Dear Miss U, My husband and I are used to the long distance thing, as the two years we were dating we were half way across the country from each other. We are both used to deployments too, since he deployed while we were dating last year. But now that we are married, I am living in Arizona in our apartment alone while all of my friends are in Wisconsin. I have a few friends here but I don't really feel like I can open up to them yet. He can only call and talk to me on the phone for about ... -
Miss You Issues: Bored & Waiting
Dear Miss U, So, I've known him for 3 1/2 years now. We were just friends with benefits at first, but of course I started to fall in love with him. He had his problems in life and it hasn't been an easy road for him. I've accepted him and loved him regardless his faults. He asked to be with me last year and of course I said yes. We were together for about 3 months and he broke up with me saying he needed time to get his life together. It was hard for me because I waited so long to be with him... -
Miss You Issues: Marriage & Doubts
Dear Miss U, I love my boyfriend Elijah so much. We have been together on and off for nine years now. We are in a long distance relationship, and although it’s challenging we still try to make it work. We try to talk on the phone, txt and video chat by ooVoo and Skype and that helps. Sometimes I wonder if our relationship will last since the distance is our only issue. I also wonder if we will ever get married. We have talked about marriage but I have doubts for some reason. PLEASE HELP ME!!!!... -
Miss You Issues: More Quick Questions
Dear Miss U, My boyfriend lives in England, and I live in the US. I love him very much, but I'm having issues with him right now though. He said "I love you" to me several times, but now he's told me that he only said that to make me happy. I don't know how I should respond to this. I also feel like he's not really putting any effort into this. I suggested we try a whole bunch of the activities on the site, but he always says no. I just want to know if you think that it would be worth sticking th... -
Miss You Issues: Culture & U
Dear Miss U, I'm not entirely sure what to do in this situation. To my girlfriend, school has always come first to her because it is all she knows. To her getting good grades so she can one day get a good education is the most important thing to her. I was perfectly fine with that and I support her fully... But now the circumstances have changed. When she told her parents about me and how she wanted to study in Canada, they immediately disapproved. They threatened her with taking her out of ... -
Miss You Issues: Travel & Money
Dear Miss U, My boyfriend and I met online and had an instant connection. We've been together for over a year now, and yet we have not yet visited one another. He keeps saying that we're going to do it soon; however it has not happened yet. He's a single dad, and scheduling and finances have been an issue. I have offered to come see him, and he continually says ok, we'll make it happen. It hasn't. He keeps alluding to our future together, and us being married, but that would mean we would ha... -
Miss You Issues: Distant Comforts
Dear Miss U, My girlfriend and I have been through thick and thin together and we've never had to say anything to make each other feel better 'cause all we needed was to know somebody would always be there. When I went to school 9 hours away, things in her life just happened to turn for the worse (car accident, had to quit her job, sick grandmother {who she has to look after}, parents ALWAYS working). I wanted to make her feel better but she doesn't like to open up because everybody she has ope... -
Miss You Issues: Compatibility, Expectations & U
Dear Miss U, My bf and I (both 22 years old) have been officially together for about a year. He is the first person I truly love, and he feels the same way. However, we "argue" a lot: we aren't mean to each other, insult each other or any of this. But it seems like there is always something that bothers me. I feel like I am not his priority (when we are apart), that I do everything in the house (when we are together) etc. These moments are painful for the both of us. I sometimes wonder: ... -
Miss You Issues: The Internet Mine-Field & U
Dear Miss U, I was introduced to Sean on aim when I was 14, 15 years ago. My friend chatted with him through another friend. I had no contacts and she gave me his screen name. From there we talked everyday online for a few years. We decided to be committed to each other and I made plans to move out to Ohio but my money situation wouldn't let me. We broke it off and did our own things for a few years. But we always talked consistently (through text messages.) Recently we have started talking a l... -
Miss You Issues: Closing the Distance Planning
Dear Miss U, My girlfriend and I met in the states and have been together ever since. She has since gone back to England and we are now navigating the visa situation to allow one of us to make the big move. But she is freaking out, constantly questioning if she is strong enough to do the long distance now, and the big move later, saying that we should just give up because it’s going to be so difficult. I don't know what to do, she already knows that I love her, and after I tell her to have hop... -
Miss You Issues: How to Communicate
Dear Miss U, My boyfriend and I have not been talking as often and were always fighting. During the disagreements a lot of things go unsaid due to the fact we don’t like arguing so we avoid it. My boyfriend also tends to be very double standard with certain things in our relationship and takes his frustrations of not being able to be together or have sex out on me like I’m not experiencing the same thing. We try talking about it but it gets complicated and confusing after a while because wor...
