How is it that the people that caused me so my grief in school still are finding ways to stir things up?? My very good friend is getting married. In high school there was a group of 5 of us who had lockers beside each other and all came from the same Jr high and hung out tons. One of those girls S is the one getting married. In school out of the group I was the least close with her but since graduating we've become super close and I don't talk to any of the others anymore. (When I came back from a year in Germany the one I thought was my Bff couldn't be bothered with me anymore)

S has asked me to be her bridesmaid over D who she was closest to during 6 years of school, they were pretty much inseparable. Since then though D and S don't see each other much or only when it is convenient for D who also likes herself a lot.

Back in November when S first got engaged D randomly messaged S asking if she should start saving for a bridesmaid dress and S avoided it.

Recently D and S went for lunch and S knew it was going to be awkward but knew it was going to come eventually. D all of the sudden says "so my mom and sister keep asking me if I am a bridesmaid and I dont know what to tell them" So S tells her no she is not and it isn't anything personal just that she has picked people she is close to right now and wanted to keep the bridesmaids to a minimum.

Welll......D starts crying saying that she is so upset and thought they were best friends and how could she. (this coming from the girl that asked if S had a dress yet even thought S had showed her a photo of it last time they saw each other, so clearly her motives are in vain and not because she cares about or knows what is going on in her friend S's life)

S didn't bring up that I was her bridesmaid since she was so upset and they left on awkward terms.

Fast forward till now.

S went out for dinner where a girl we went to school with was her waitress (who also was my roommate for a while and ruined my life) she asked who was in her bridal party and S told her. Bitch face then goes and talks to H & K who were in the group of 5 in school (the ones who couldn't be bothered to keep up our friendship) and tells them what she hears. H7 K then go and tell D they are SHOCKED to hear I am a bridesmaid and she is not.

Fucking hell this BS, anyway D messages S asking if this news is true and she tells her the truth. She replies saying she stood by her through thick and thin even when she ditched her for bf's in Highschool and she was like a sister to her blah blah. and if S doesn't think their friendship is worth that much then she wished her the best in the future.

This is when I get a message from S telling me what happened. It's so frustrating, I feel bad for S because I know it wasn't an easy decision for her to not pick D to be in her wedding and its stupid that she should have to justify our friendship.

This day isn't about who her bridesmaids are, its about starting her life with her fiancee and D doesn't seem to get that. I think S is glad she never asked D to be in the party, this is way to much to have to deal with.

Just had to rant as I don't have anyone else to rant about it to. I look forward to the bridal shower to see if D will show and if she'll even talk to me...hmm