We'll start this bloggity blog with the not to sexy
I've been on a couple dates the past week. I met some cop for dinner which I was late to, I got lost. It seemed alright, we had things to talk about but I didn't think I'd go beyond there. I messaged him later saying thanks again for dinner was nice to meet him. Three days later I get a message from him:
Yea, I had a good dinner there. I don't think we have all that much in common. We get along great but I don't think we should keep seeing each other."
Ok, I didn't think meeting up once meant we were already seeing each other but whatever on to the next!
The next day I had a coffee date with some guy. I was dreadfully hungover and didn't shower but didn't really care. He was nice and I think we had lots to talk about, and he was probably the easiest one to talk to of all my dates so far. He was short though, like maybe an inch taller then me which is def not the most attractive for me. He has a house and a job but he just came off as more of a boy to me then a man haha. I could tell he was really diggin my sweet aroma of mojitos which was nice but I'm not sure I was as keen on him as he was for me.
He messaged me a couple days later asking if he could take me out on a date sometime. I figured I'd give him another chance so we went out for drinks. The bill comes around and I do my whole 'oh how much do I own?' (waiting for him to say No No I got this baby cakes) but that doesn't happen and I end up paying my half.
A little peeved. If you have specifically asked to take me on a date I assume it's on you. He asks if I want to grab coffee so I say ok. We go to this place with bored games, play a game drink our drinks. When it's time to go he looks in his wallet and goes "I've only got this $20" umming an awwing over having to break it. So I say I have change and he's like 'Oh that would be great. Thanks." Now I'm really mad. I also missed the last train home. He offers to driver me home. Oh thanks thats so kind of you.
I get him to drop me off at the house two doors down so he doesn't know where I live. He stops and I jump outta there so fast, no awkward goodbyes this time! He also did nothing to deserve a kiss from me. I don't think I'll be seeing him again.I got a text from him on Saturday asking if I wanted to hang out today and I didn't respond because I was too busy doing this...
Ahhhh yes on to the good stuff! I was too busy because I went to Cold Lake this weekend to see an old...friend. Yes, friend
If you need to jolt your memories (which you shouldn't, c'mon y'all should have my blogzzz memorized!) you can find it here Story of CCHe messaged me again wanting me to come up and visit him. I knew exactly what he wanted (He denied it, he said he wanted to see me too) so I jumped at the chance like the horn bag I am. I bought a couple new CD's for the drive and a new bra cause I don't know that I've actually bought anything new in the five years since I saw him. The 3.5 hr drive was fine, I quite enjoyed it. I found a roadside turnout before I got there where I could do my make up, change and look presentable.
I met him in the lobby of the hotel he was staying in. He came down a few minutes later, I brought my bag up to his room and we had a beer and talked. He's grown a bread and cut his hair and damn! It's a very good look. We went for dinner. He opened every door for me and paid for everything. A true man....or a small price to pay for a booty call? Either way I enjoyed it. Dinner was good. There was so much tension you could have cut it with a dildo!
We went back to the hotel after, it was late. He pulled out a cigarette which i don't remember him smoking the last time I saw him but I'm in no position to nag. We started watching a movie both sitting on his bed. Talking a bit. At one point he touched my knee or something and my whole body tingled. After a bit more flirting we started kissing and he was just as good a kisser as I remember...I might even go as far to say the best kisser I've kissed. Anyway, one thing lead to another and ......
I GOT LAAAAAAAAAAID!!
It was so hot and passionate. Now I don't want to start comparing anyone, but seriously in the 3.5 years I was with my ex sex never came close to what it was like this weekend. We cuddled up and watched a bit of tv before going to bed in which we cuddled all night as well. That is definitely one thing I miss since being single.
Next day we woke up and did it all over again. Ahh he has improved greatly since last time, lost the jack hammer and I think he even got bigger. He was all man, rough hands, tossed me around a bit. He is very skinny but his stomach is rock hard. He even said he's never had a bj that comes close to mine bahaha...I got the skillz! Afterwards we talked a bit in bed and he said it was a year and a half since he had sex! Crazy, no wonder he wanted to see me.
We went for a drive near the lake and had lunch. Walked around a bit after then eventually after walking down the main street ended up in the hotel bar for afternoon happy hour. We got on the topic of exes. The last person he'd dated was 2/3 years ago and it was only for a month. He works away half the year so meeting someone ok with it can be hard I guess.....little does he know I'm a pro long distancer!
He asked if I wanted another drink. I don't know where this me came from, I usually am the completely opposite but I said "sure or we could go upstairs
" It didn't take long to clear the bill lol. We talked a bit in bed, I told him how my ex was sexually neglectant. (Not a word? It should be) and he was kind enough to say he was crazy and if it was him he'd never do that. Then we got it on again. We went for dinner at the hotel restaurant. It was nice, the food was really good but I couldn't risk a food baby so I stopped eating at 80% full...Good choice I'd say! Because we ended up going to the hot tub for a bit. It was super hot though so we didn't stay too long. That evening wasn't too eventful watched a movie. I fell asleep on him. I was trying really hard not to take this weekend for more then it was but at times I found it hard. I had kind of hoped things might have come from when we first met but I wasn't in the position to and being around him again and it was exciting and especially when he wanted to cuddle and you know when you're cuddling and they'll run their fingers on whatever part of you their hands just happen to land on? Maybe it's just me but I find that to me quite intimate? Then we cuddled all night again. So I'll just assume that he's been deprived a while.
Next morning...sex! Then we went to brunch, they had a big one on Sunday's and there was soo much food, it was delicious! He has been working the last three weeks straight so he wanted to tae it easy today. We watched movies and then ordered pizza for dinner. The rest of the evening was pretty uneventful unfortunately but he seemed pretty tired and had to be up at 5.
5am came around and I was so hoping for a quick lil shag but I think it was a tad to early for him. We kissed a bit though before he got up and showered and got into his work clothes. He came and gave me a couple more kisses and said it was good to see me. I told him lets not leave it another five years, and he said he might be back next year
I was kinda hoping sooner then that...but let's not make this more then it was stupid Snowgirl! He got a few more things ready and came again to kiss me goodbye and said to have a good day, safe drive all that stuff. Once he left I couldn't sleep much. The bed was super comfy though. About two hours later I got outta bed and packed my things and headed home. It was really good to see him. I finally got some sexy time and not with just some stranger so that was cool. Not expecting anything to come from it...but secretly hoping he'll want me to come back to visit.
Yeah I have had my share of Internet dates but believe me it wasn't just them I wasn't too happy with. In almost every case I found something I didn't quite like. Maybe we're just got ready/ have not met the one we are supposed to meet?!
But you're an adult and I know you'll make good decisions!