I just thought that I would update the community with the latest.

My now-ex didn't see a foreseeable end to the issues that we were dealing with and asked for an extended break or a break-up. I was not up for taking another break, especially for that long (6 months), so I opted to end things.

Thanks for the support, those who reached out. This forum was very helpful.
I may pop in from time to time but it would most likely just be to lurk.

Best wishes to all.