Over two years into relationship and we got into power-struggle phase of our relationship.

It's scary.

From the total infatuation to argumentative frustration with each other.

Adam asked me the other day if I feel we are growing closer. I say yes.

We tend to argue more recently and we drive each other crazy, we are frustrated with the differences that divide us and it's so hard to give up on those arguments.

But every time I think about it in my head we are just comfortable enough with each other to disagree. Adam is afraid that me reading and 'being paranoid' about our relationship will make me secondguess our relationship. On the contrary, I have never felt this sure about a relationship.
The fact that we experience those negative emotions makes this relationship so real, so true and makes me sure that we are going to make it.


Also I found an interesting page about relationship stages that also have some LDR advice.

http://www.agape-aid.org/saveamarria...flictstage.php

(It's probably some religious page but I really think they talk sense in some places)