Over two years into relationship and we got into power-struggle phase of our relationship.
It's scary.
From the total infatuation to argumentative frustration with each other.
Adam asked me the other day if I feel we are growing closer. I say yes.
We tend to argue more recently and we drive each other crazy, we are frustrated with the differences that divide us and it's so hard to give up on those arguments.
But every time I think about it in my head we are just comfortable enough with each other to disagree. Adam is afraid that me reading and 'being paranoid' about our relationship will make me secondguess our relationship. On the contrary, I have never felt this sure about a relationship.
The fact that we experience those negative emotions makes this relationship so real, so true and makes me sure that we are going to make it.
Also I found an interesting page about relationship stages that also have some LDR advice.
http://www.agape-aid.org/saveamarria...flictstage.php
(It's probably some religious page but I really think they talk sense in some places)
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#1sweetshay commentedFebruary 1, 2015, 09:08 PMEditing a commentInteresting. It's actually comforting to read this post because it's hard not to panic when you have a string of bad moments with your SO and you have loads of things going through your head. One day I asked my SO if he ever thought about breaking up and he said no, it made me feel silly for being the one who thinks about it when we really get heated. Thank you for sharing the post and link
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