I know he's busy, and he did take some time to chat with me, but it would have been nice to be noticed as his woman, not just words on his phone.
And sometimes I honestly wonder if he would even notice me, if I didn't start chat first.
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AussieAmericanGirl66 started a blog post Feeling a little bit hurtFeeling a little bit hurt
I don't understand him sometimes. He used to appreciate when I sent him photos to inbox or to our private page. I was all excited about my birthday and the new jewelry I bought, and I posted photos for him, with my new earrings and bracelet on, and I looked happy and cute because I had so much fun when I went to the meditation group on Tuesday. But he didn't say anything at all. Usually he says I'm cute, sexy, beautiful, or something anyway. This time he didn't. I complimented him on his new profile pic, but he didn't say anything about mine.
I know he's busy, and he did take some time to chat with me, but it would have been nice to be noticed as his woman, not just words on his phone.
And sometimes I honestly wonder if he would even notice me, if I didn't start chat first.
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#3msAbby commentedEditing a commentYeah . I was around to much with him too, but when i was too busy his kinda worry so its fair enough his finding me when im not around. -
#4OperaDiva commentedEditing a commentHave you told him how you feel? Sometimes people do get caught up in their own lives (maybe even more so in an LDR) and you need to communicate your needs. It is not OK for you to feel like a low priority!
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#5AussieAmericanGirl66 commentedEditing a commentHe made up for it last night. He made me his priority, and we chatted off and on for 4 hours!
It was great, we talked about our frustrations, and our feelings, and he said we have a very strong bond, and he wants to keep on with me, and see where this road takes us. We can only take it a day at a time, and so far, that has gotten us to 4 years. And the bumps in the road are smoothing out, as time goes by. He said he does get frustrated with the relationship, for the same reasons I do, distance and time differences, and the fact that both of us have busy lives, especially him, with working 70 hours a week, and still having kids at home. But what we have is too good to give up, so we try to find time for us, too.
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