So apparently my sister came up with the idea that she wants me to move with her to Chicago when she takes up her new internship. I can think about it for a year and let her know when I finish community college. The thing is I might just be comfortable visiting her. I know she's trying to be a better sister from what she told me that is but we don't get along I mean we do somedays but other days are off. I am cautious about leaving my life here and moving in with her being that we are 7 years apart makes it even more unsure. She basically told me that this small town that I love- because according to her it sucks people in and they can't ever leave and see other places and its a shit hole with no real jobs. Hearing that made me cry because I have lived here all my life I am attached to it and she also made it clear that people usually leave their town or state to go to college making me feel bad about myself. I understand that we are different people but she because she jett off for college and everywhere doesn't mean I want to, its like she's forcing her morals on me and I dont like it. I love my sister but she has to understand asking me to move away from the town Ive always known to a big city doesnt seem practical. --which side note I dont like big cities I like my small town and others around it. Then she had to go and say "well mom and dad wont stick around here very much longer consider that." so she was saying that hey if you dont move they will. That scares the shit out me that the moment I move out they move on. From the house I love and the town and it scares me. Got any advice??? help?