This is my current situation I will be going into a 3rd year at the community college in my area...and truth is. I feel like I am working so hard and not going anywhere-if I had it my way I'd be a 4 yr somewhere in my town or around here studying to become a photography teacher or writer. Right now I want a break I want to forget about school and being stressed out. I want to think about working and moving out on my own. I am turning 21 and still living with my parents. I need independence. I want to live with B at one point and get engaged, start thinking about settling down and getting married. I know I'm young but you only live once, why not live it the way you want? Is it wrong I want to become a mom of B's kids? And I am thinking about marrying him before all that happens? I caught the bouquet at my cousins wedding-B went and my family adored him and he adored them. So many people kept telling B he would be setting into a good family and to keep me around bc im a great girl and if you find one to keep her around. So long story short I think my family wants B and I to get hitched. Hey, I do too. Is that so wrong?