In the middle of my 4 day visit with J. He had to go to class and workshop today so we'll be apart the whole day. I was sad/mad/hurt at first because he told me about it on my first day, that he knew he had to go in but didn't want to tell me because he thought I wouldn't actually come visit. Well, that combined with him having 2 full classes my first day in and then was supposed to work and go to school yesterday as well, no, I wouldn't have come because that would have been 1 full day with him out of 4. He ended up taking Friday off so that we could have more time and I will be traveling to a nearby city to visit a friend as she gets off work at noon. Tomorrow will be with his family who I am excited to see. I would visit them today but it's not safe for me to go to that area on my own.

Speaking of safe, my flight went okay with the exception of the guy sitting next to me. I thought he was just a talker and didn't know how to fill out the international claims form but halfway through the flight he started snuggling up to me and telling me he just wanted to listen to my voice. Oh dear goodness. I tried sleeping/ignoring him but he'd constantly try talking to me. I tried talking about J, because maybe he would respect another man already claiming me (as bad as that sounds). Nope, still didn't work. Ring on my finger, only talking about my SO and the trying to ignore, he kept trying to interact with me. I desperately wished it was like a normal bus ride or something else where I could just "get off at the next stop" and run away. I told my parents about it, my dad said it's possible to report to the flight attendants and request a new seat. I had thought about trying to change seats but then my mind wandered into what to do in the situation where this person I don't know has a possible aggressive reaction, either on the plane or at the airport? So glad J was already waiting at the airport when I arrived so I wouldn't have to stand around.