When I first met my SO during an internship, I found him to be cute, charming and funny. At that time, I wasn't expecting for him to like me. His 6ft 3" demeanor, for sure, wouldn't find a 5ft person like me to be attractive. Yet he found me attractive and we started dating. It was awesome. We had the best dates one could possibly ask for.


After he went back home to NL, he would send photos of what his life is like there. He likes going to parties and festivals. And whenever he sends photos of himself with his friends and family, I noticed that they are mostly around my SO's height.

This worries me because if I visit him there, because: (1) since I'm tiny, they may think of me as a joke. And, (2) I'm scared of maybe going to festivals with him because of how small I am compared to their height.

I guess it's a bit shallow thinking about it. But I feel insecure about it all. I feel that I wouldnt get the respect that I deserve just because I am smaller.