Ok. So, I have to share this somewhere, and I don't know who else to talk to.

When I first flew to China I flew over with a friend who would be working at the same school as I am.
We were kind of awkward as she dated my Korean ex right after he dumped me...
ANYWAYS, he dumped her a few months later and so we kind of became friends on the 11 hour flight.

On the flight she told me never to let her fall for another bad choice, and basically she didn't want to date interracially anymore.

She started dating this Chinese guy who works with us last month. (To be honest it makes me really jealous. It is really hard to see them together when I am missing my SO. But, this is not part of my worry, this is just me being a selfish, terrible person.) They are already discussing marriage. She is even open to them getting married during her trip to America in September! (Again, jealousy that she could be getting married before me! Ugh. I'm a terrible person.)
Down to the root though. Besides me being a terrible person for being jealous, I'm genuinely worried for her. I feel like she's rushing into this. (We've been in China for 10 months. She's open to marrying this that she's only been dating for a month, and she's only known for like 2 months.) Maybe it is all meant to be. OR not. I cannot tell for sure and I feel if I discussed it with anyone they would just think I was jealous and trying to keep her from being happy.

I guess that's all.

Any advice or thoughts?