Crap... They would not let him have the visa. I think we should have gone for the version with me as a sponsor (and I have to phone train him a bit for when the embassy folks call) or a student visa.
I am so sad and angry and frustratrated...
So now we have to make new plans, which will probably be cheeper for me but I am still unhappy about it. I feel like I have failed him... It is so strange looking at the living room knowing he will not se it now, and possably never (we plan to move in half a year). I just want to cry, but I know I must be strong...
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I did go to see him... I was lucky to get tickets. It gave us less days but was still good. Will write about the trip!
The embassy more or less said he could get visa with me as his sponsor... We will try that later this year, it may work since both his work colleges got it with their girlfriends. I will ask the girls what they said in their sponsor letters. We also thought about student visa for next year. He might also try to get a more permanent job if he finishes school this year. Will have a thought process before summer.