This is day 3 of our one week holiday/trying out our lifestyle together. Boyfriend got us a very nice flat, it is like a little house with 2 floors and several bathrooms and bedrooms. True to form, our stay started with our last plane being an hour late and most our luggage getting lost (in addition to my husband loosing his phone on the first plane. Not the fault of Turkish Airlines though!). True to form, too, I did not really care! My husband sighed, but I just laughed, I was like, I don't even care... We had arrived! And I have enough in my hand luggage for a night or two.
So, the first night we just ordered take-away to the flat. My boys went along well, it was just as on Skype. I spent the first night with my boyfriend (this was the deal) in the motel-ish place that is next door to where he lives. We even got the room we had 6 months ago... It felt very strange and very familiar to be back. The next night, I had bought a new dress (my travel trousers too warm for Turkey in the spring), and I cooked them dinner. The boys were calling oneanother "Man", talking like they have known each other forever and even discussing the budget for med and my boyfriend's upcoming flat, without involving me! I felt very much like a 50's housewife, with a twist... We drank wine and tosted to our life. Later we did some more "talk", it was some akward silence but there was big issues being discussed. We were trying to limit it to the immidiate future, still my boyfriend asked if this was "for ever" and we said yes. We talked about PDA and what everybody was ok with.
The whole thing so far is very...communal. The boys are very calm. We went shopping together and all. I think actually I am the one who feels more overwealmed at this point, because I feel so much love, I feel like everything has just started, it is strange that it does not feel more strange... It is just life.
Now me and my husband are hanging on my boyfriend's job on the beach restaurant, just like I will most likely do by myself from May. I keep ordering only single items to give him excuses to come by me often...
Tonight I will cook a Norwegian dish for them and we will exhange Easter candy eggs (trying to have a bit of Easter in Muslim Turkey). The suitcases arrived some time after midnight/this morning, so I am happy about that (even if they lost my favourite luggage tag... but I have gotten a new one with Turkish Airlines on it!).
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#3nottheprincesspeach commentedApril 17, 2014, 11:26 AMEditing a commentI am so happy for you! I'm glad things are going so well, and that everyone is so open to discussion.
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#4differentcountries commentedApril 19, 2014, 08:54 AMEditing a commentThanks To clairify; we are in a holiday place, so people don't mind PDA much. Outside here, "real Turkey " is more concervative. When we take the bus 30 min to the nearby city, SO wont even hold my hand. I feel no need to do PDA with both at the same time, I mean I don't do that much at home either because I want to give each of them special attention.
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#5samalamadingdong commentedJanuary 26, 2018, 09:32 PMEditing a commentsounds idilic
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