So my new roommate has this tendency to leave food in a pan on the stove for... well very long times. Everytime I want to cook something I have to move her things (and ugh old chicken gravy is really disgusting).
I haven't said anything at first, because I'm not a perfect roommate either and I thought she'd realize that it must be annoying for me and eventually stop doing it.
Finally this morning I asked her could she leave the leftovers somewhere else... and I don't really know how it happened, but she threw a total fit that ended with her yelling at me
Obviously that's the very shortened version (she has also accused me of having broken a mug, which I didn't even know was broken until she showed it to me saying "thanks!!") but seriously... I really didn't know what was going on anymore.I talked to my boyfriend and then my mum about it, because I somehow felt like I was the bad guy and I didn't know why.
Later today I she asked me to help her with a mail (German isn't her first language) and then she kept telling me about her guy trouble. Apparently she broke up with her boyfriend (of one week?), because he went to Morocco and he smoked weed (so what?) and cheated on her and I don't know a million other things that I didn't really understand all that well. Partly due to the language barrier and partly because I just don't understand that sort of problems. I have a few friends like that who like to tell me about their problems with guys. And really I don't understand why they tell me of all people? I don't know what to say. I don't know what they feel like, because seriously, I've never had this kind of problems. To me it's easy. If he's an asshole, get rid of him. Don't mourn for assholes. If he doesn't treat you right, he's not the right guy for you. I don't fall in love with people who behave like assholes, that's a total turn off for me *shrug* I never seem to know what to tell them, except that other mums have sexy and nice sons.
On a related note: I've just spent over an hour on the phone with my really close, guy-drama-free friend (in fact, she's so drama free, she never has anyone to have drama with in the first place) and I feel a lot better now.
We're going to see this comedian tomorrow, who is German but famous in Poland. So his comedy's mostly about German-Polish cultural differences and stuff. I'm sort of undecided about the quality, but it's interesting and I'm looking forward to going there anyway.
I feel so bad about this, because really I'm a very tolerant roommmate. There's almost nothing that I say anything about, because usually things aren't worth it. So when I finally say something, going all mental on me is totally uncalled for.
Anyway, last night my friend and I got back from this stand up guy (soo much fun! we even got a photo with him! It could only have been better of my boyfriend had been there!) and I was talking to my boyfriend on the phone and she asked me if she could borrow my computer.
Ugh. No. I'm sorry, but I don't do that. That's too much private shit right there. I would never expect that of anyone else either. Asking to check your mails is fine, but like actually taking the computer? no.
This is my most priced possession, I'm sorry, but I'm not giving it to others. And seriously, did she think after the stunt she pulled on Saturday I was going to be all sunshine shiney fine with her. Without even so much as an apology from her side?
Uh-uh.
my mother always wants me to dry the sink after i wash my hands, like not just around the sink, inside it! everytime! and this silly thing caused us some discussions, because i dont see this as necessary and sometimes forget., but when im in her house i try my best to remember, and take one minute of my time to dry the sink, so i wont annoy her, and she wont annoy me because i annoyed her. lol