Now that we're officially engaged and all that nonsense, I have started looking more in depth into the immigration process. I've always known that we need to save EVERYTHING but oh my goodness, is this ever terrifying. I went on to visa forums and I was looking at photos of what couples have submitted and it's like literally 8lbs of paper. Monster and I aren't an overly photo-snappy couple. We really don't take that many photos together. He takes one of me once and a while and I'll take some of him but we don't take a lot of couple shots together...and of course I live alone and we're both pretty antisocial so it's not like we have friends around to snap them of us candidly either. So, we're severely lacking in that department. Also, we don't really go OUT much...so how do we prove anything?! How do you prove sitting around playing video games and...erm...well...you know. Other stuff. I mean, I've saved our call logs, texts, we have like 204803849023843074392792829478297439284903 Facebook messages... he has a bunch of bank statements showing purchases he's made here...I can get people who know us to write up little testimonies I guess...
I just feel like we're not prepared at all and here I thought I was so prepared. Maybe I'm just really intimidated but...ahhhh!
Maybe I just need to sit down and gather everything we do have and make a bunch of lists and just keep researching. I don't know. I'm really scared.