we would love to close the distance but...

[Reynaldo1212]

she 16 (almost 17 in this month of 25th) and im 18,and we been dating for 1 year and 7 months, we both go to school and were both jurnior, i always wanted to move in with her and go to her school in my senior year because i want to be there to help her, protect her, and love her. i know we would do good in school since were opposite in our worst subject (like imm horrible in math but she an expert in math lol), i know i would protect her more since her family dosent have a car and only walk.....she almost been kidnapp twice but luckly she didnt....that my main reason to move in

but the main promblem is our age and my family, her family seems ok of me moving in since they know i would move in to help not ruin anything, but my family dosent let me move in....they say i only can move in when i graduate or when she 18 and i saved enoough money for a house, appartment or trailer
my family dosent want me to move in now because she think her mom would send me to jail if i did anything wrong to her and she tells me i wolnt be any help since im beraly any help in my house, my mom just dosent let me move out...
i do love my mom she never did anything bad to me, she always helps me, so its just hard not listening to her and just move out on my own will

so idk wat to do now...should i wait intil she 18?, should i move in during the summer break with her permission?, should i wait intil i graduate? what should i do? =(

and thank you for reading ik it was long

[Zephii]

You should wait until you can be financially independant. It's not ok to sponge off people, but if you can support yourself - paying your own rent and bills and food, then move anywhere you please, and maybe your SO would want to move in with you.

[Zephii]

You should wait until you can be financially independant. It's not ok to sponge off people, but if you can support yourself - paying your own rent and bills and food, then move anywhere you please, and maybe your SO would want to move in with you.

[usmcgirl]

I would wait. I understand wanting to move in now, and you've provided good reasons, but still, it's not responsible to move in now. You need to be able to support her, as much as you possibly can. I know it's hard right now, anyone on this site can understand that, but just wait a little bit. Both families will love you for waiting; plus it sets the grounds for your future. Good luck!

[Engel]

you didn't mention how old you are, if you work, but if you are in high school too, depending on her family would be just wrong. if they don't even have the money for a car, an extra mouth to feed most likely isn't going to help them.

[Kerry]

wait until you both can support yourselves. that way no one can tell you what you can do.