Closing the Distance in Six Weeks

[Sierra]

Well, neither my boyfriend or I were expecting this. Firstly, sorry for being so absent, my life has been extremely stressful, I've been working two jobs and dealing with extreme back pain...my "real job" I'm about to quit, my boss acted really inappropriately towards me on Monday and it caused me so much anxiety I haven't been back for two days (I called and said I was sick).

Basically after a long talk with EVERYTHING, my mother, my family friends, my boyfriend (obviously) I've decided it's time to move. I can't quit my job and expect to get a job here for two months, that's ridiculous.

So that means next week and the week after when I'm there I have to find an apartment. It's hit me like a ton of a million bricks, I'm happy, scared, sad ...

[rsvpnj]

I wish I had some advice for you right now...

but all I can say is be brave... and good luck!

[Sierra]

Just going to do the best I can and hope for the best, it's all anyone can do in the end really.

My boyfriend and I both think it's for the best. Hopefully we're right, it also gives us a longer amount of time to get to know each other before we actually move in together.

[kirbycat]

Wow, what a crazy mix of emotions you must be facing! It sounds like you're making a wise decision, though. And, as unfortunate as it is that you'll be leaving your job on a low point, it seems like the timing couldn't have been better, since you already have your trip lined up for next week. Maybe the universe is just giving you a little kick in the butt to get you moving toward the next stage in your life? I hope it all works out smoothly!

[Tanja]

New things are always scary. And often the thought of doing something new is way more scary than actually doing it! I'm sure once you get there and find a place to stay everything will fall in place. And you're not there alone, your SO will be close by to help you whenever you need

[lucybelle]

Oh this is such great news!! (about moving, not about stupid job) Yes it's going to be stressful and frustrating and sad and everything else. But you're moving to your SO. You're CLOSING THE DISTANCE. This was your goal, and now it's closer than before.

Congratulations!!!

[Sierra]

Thanks guys, I am trying really hard to focus on being excited instead of freaked out. I gave my official notice today and my boss said he'd pay me for an extra week and my last day can be the 26th, which is the day I go to Texas, so I'm going to be on the hunt for an apartment. I think once I sign the lease I'll start to get excited, but you know part of it is, without SEEING my boyfriend being excited about it, like his face and smile and all that, it's hard for me to be super excited.

I am glad though, I'm glad this is over, we're both sick of the distance and enough is enough. When life hands you lemons, made lemonade. Plus my therapist said it's probably better to move now instead of August that way if I hate it I can come back before I start school LMFAO

Everyone in my family has been really supportive of this sudden change and I'm just not used to it. I think once the waves of anxiety pass, I'll be much, much happier instead of so scared!!

But this is what we both want and it is for the best, I know it is.

[princessmeg1328]

Congratulations on getting to close the distance so soon! You must be so nervous. I know I would be. You have nothing to worry about though. You'll get through this just fine, and your SO will be right by your side the whole way. Happy endings do happen. I think this one will be yours.

Be happy your moving in May instead of August. It'll be a little cooler at least.

[marbear31]

Jobs and money are stupid, and way overrated (I'm still pulling for money on trees :P). Boyfriends are affectionate, cuddly, and kissable.

I'd go for the bf every time. :P

Seriously, though, so happy for you closin g the distance, and best of luck with the job situation!