Closing the distance is one financial mess

[Shanondorf]

Hey everyone. I need to vent big time, I'm not going to lie. If you want to read please do, and advice is also highly appreciated. so I live about 2500 miles away from the light of my life right now, and we have plans to close the distance. I had a job, what I thought was a good solid one before our most recent visit. I pre arranged a vacation from my factory job about a month in advance to see him for two weeks. There was a slowdown in production a week before the visit, I didn't work the whole week. I was promised my normal position upon my return. We had our visit and then I call back to report to work. Now I'm on call again, everyone but 10 people from my company have been laid off/are on call. No full time positions. I give up. I'm looking for another job, but come on! What do I have to do to get to the one thing I want most in life? I have no job, no car, no money. I can't see this going well, and I worked so hard to find the job I had. It took me about 6 months, and that's 6 moths wasted pretty much. I think I've lost my faith in this world, and that closing the distance isn't possible. : [

[lucybelle]

Just keep looking. It sucks and it's easy to get down about this. But stay positive. You're working towards your goal. If you are in desperate need of a job, you are never over qualified for anything. Do anything just to get some savings into the bank.

Best wishes.

[D.4C]

well...since you are looking for a job anyway...maybe look for a job where your SO is...if things are meant to be...they will always find a way...don't give up if it's what you really want

[hevpie]

I feel for ya hun!
I am on part time hours and had to move back in with my parents so I can save what little I do earn to buy plane ticlets. I know it can feel totally hopeless sometimes. I will be quiting my job in a few weeks time so I can spent 3 months in the States so when I get back I have to start from square one.
I know how the feelings of hopelessness and dispair can get on top of you but just keep plugging away at it, something will turn up

[Eleven]

Just try to find a job again, or try to find job in ur SO's place.

Its an obstacle in life only and soon u'll gonna surpass it.
Just keep going, Don't give up.

[Shanondorf]

Thanks all. I realize it could be worse. I kind of overreact to little things especially in the first week after he leaves but I got over it and I might be close to getting back on track. I just hope I'll still make it by our planned close the distance date. x3

[Adora]

Hope you get another job soon. I know its pretty sucky just now but please try and keep positive

[Shanondorf]

Well I got a job interview so things are looking up already. It's only going to be seasonal if I get the job, but I will fight for a permanent position. > : D