My Love and I have been dating long distance for about 3.5 years. He has a job out in Pennsylvania and I go to school in Michigan and have 2 years left. The relationship has always been long distance and we are so done with being apart, but not willing to give it up! As of now we see each other for at least a long weekend a month, sometimes longer, but it gets harder and harder every time we leave one another. I am looking into transferring colleges to be with him, but my parents recently got a divorce and I think it might be a little hard on my mom. I want to be with him and he wants me there, this feels right to me but i don't want to let down the other people in my life. Transferring schools is going to be tough and it is going to cost more, along with that we would have to pay rent on something and all the other expenses that come along with it. I feel like no matter what i choose i am letting someone down. Moving there feels right to me and i am willing to make this choice for us, but am i making the right choice? Part of me just wants to vent but another part of me wants to hear if any of you have any advise for me.
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i understand what you feel, but the "right" choice for now is put your education first. it sound cheesy but you still have a long live together ahead (they keep saying that to me too and i feel like i already lost half lol) finnish school first be there for your mom you got the luck that you see each other regular. hold on, do school first you already been such a long way you can do the next 2 years!!! -
I'm sorry this is soo off topic but I just smiled when I saw how you spelled finish with 2 N's like the people from FInland. My SO is Finnish so these little things make me smile. What can I say; I am goofy!!Originally posted by dragonlady View Post
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woops can you tell it is not my native langeua? yes still having troubles with that word too lol
sorry for the typo i should have seen that , and know better by now (not changing it because of the post though)Comment
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Stay in Michigan & finish school.
2016 Goal: Buy a house.
Progress: Complete!
2017 Goal: Pay off credit card debt
Progress: Working on it.Comment
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I'm really sorry to hear that things are difficult for you both. =(
Hmm, I might have to echo what the others have said about staying put and concentrating on your education. How much longer have you got to go? Think about how achieving a qualification might help you later on when the two of you can be together. Another point that I want to focus on is your mother; you mentioned that your parents are going through a rough time and I think they would appreciate it if you could be there to help them.
These are only my suggestions though. Ultimately it is up to you to decide what is the best course of action. I wish you both lots of luck :3Comment
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